Day 32 The Attitude and the Strength of the Masculinity
Now, before I talk about Masculinity, I want to say first that in the grand scheme of things, on a very deep level there is no distinction between masculine and feminine, it doesn't exist. That being said, working on it on the everyday level is what is practical and using these words have their value, but by no means is man or a woman, or any person limited from LIVING these WORDS or EXPRESSIONS no matter what their body is.
So lets get started. The strength of the Masculinity is something I have been living and applying thanks to a physical labor job I have had. Now, before starting the job, I already had the attitude, though my living and practice expanded within the job. Essentially it is pushing past all excuses, and all pain. Its about getting the job done. Its using your muscles. And I can see the difference between people who have it and who don't. The phrase, "never worked a day in their life" applies here. Because people who aren't living as the masculine strength as expression essentially LOOK like that. How they move, how they do things, their attitude, the awareness, their perception is limited and small. They LOOK like they never worked a day in their life.
Again, anyone can be this way or live this way. Emphasis on CAN, but it doesn't mean people WILL, because WILL requires a choice or willpower to chose to move as that expression. Now within this expression there are multiple expressions that are tied to what is PRACTICAL to get the JOB done. It CAN include following the leader of the project even if they are wrong. Because as long as the goal is clear that the job needs to get done, the job WILL get done. And the fastest way is still MOVING forward towards that goal in mind. Another dimension is RESPECT, where one must Respect each of your coworkers or teammates no matter what. Any disrespect or infighting is destructive towards REACHING that GOAL of finishing the JOB. This is what mature MEN do. Admitting when you are WRONG is very important, you can sum this as the word HUMILITY, and as well as INITIATIVE, because you need to ACT in the moment and say right then and there you were wrong. You can also add the word RESPONSIBILITY to that moment. Because in the end its about getting the JOB done even if there are DETOURS.
Expanding on INITIATIVE you need to be willing to MOVE and ACT FAST. Its in your attitude and in your movement. At the same time you need to be we WILLING to do the JOB WELL. Whatever the JOB may be, you need to be willing to do it. In terms of coworkers or teammates you need to COMPLIMENT THEM, and adjust yourself so that you find the common ground, and be patient when needed. Patient in this context can be being quiet and fully listening to the person even if you disagree or they are wrong, and seeing IF its the right time to share or WHEN it is the right time, which there may not be because YOU could actually be WRONG. So essentially as long as its clear within yourself and the other person that what matters is getting the JOB done, then it doesn't matter if you do it ONE way or ANOTHER way, as long as it gets done. If the other person isn't clear about this point, then YES say something because they are not doing their job so that is unacceptable.
Another dimension is Personal Safety, well being and Responsibility. Each one is responsible for making sure what they do is safe. You can blame anyone else all you want, Making sure you are safe is your responsibility. At the same time, you don't want to be over cautious. Being a Man means knowing when to STOP something and when to PUSH past your limits, and knowing the difference between that, and taking responsibility for that, and standing in that point EVEN if others disagree. Its a thin line, but your attitude and commitment to doing it RIGHT, within yourself, is achievable.
This is what I have learned and been living with and through my body. I can see in various people who never really worked a job in this way, I can see their weakness. I can also see their potential, and have even had SOME success in helping others get it. This ENTIRE physical reality is based on this Masculine energy of BUILDING THINGS, FIXING THINGS, Making things happen in the physical, Using your bodies. So essentially its learning how to use your body to the fullest, in conjunction with others in a teamwork context.
I notice a trend of people who only use their MINDS in their jobs and so NEVER got to integrate using their bodies in their job and fully OWNING it, get lost and become very weak. That's not to say though that the issue of your THOUGHTS, EMOTIONS, and FEELINGS are all solved and can be ignored. Because it can be these very points of the Mind that prevent you from fully integrating and living with your Body in the moment to Create with it and AS it. For more about the mind visit Desteni.org and all the various websites. See links to the Side ------>
So lets get started. The strength of the Masculinity is something I have been living and applying thanks to a physical labor job I have had. Now, before starting the job, I already had the attitude, though my living and practice expanded within the job. Essentially it is pushing past all excuses, and all pain. Its about getting the job done. Its using your muscles. And I can see the difference between people who have it and who don't. The phrase, "never worked a day in their life" applies here. Because people who aren't living as the masculine strength as expression essentially LOOK like that. How they move, how they do things, their attitude, the awareness, their perception is limited and small. They LOOK like they never worked a day in their life.
Again, anyone can be this way or live this way. Emphasis on CAN, but it doesn't mean people WILL, because WILL requires a choice or willpower to chose to move as that expression. Now within this expression there are multiple expressions that are tied to what is PRACTICAL to get the JOB done. It CAN include following the leader of the project even if they are wrong. Because as long as the goal is clear that the job needs to get done, the job WILL get done. And the fastest way is still MOVING forward towards that goal in mind. Another dimension is RESPECT, where one must Respect each of your coworkers or teammates no matter what. Any disrespect or infighting is destructive towards REACHING that GOAL of finishing the JOB. This is what mature MEN do. Admitting when you are WRONG is very important, you can sum this as the word HUMILITY, and as well as INITIATIVE, because you need to ACT in the moment and say right then and there you were wrong. You can also add the word RESPONSIBILITY to that moment. Because in the end its about getting the JOB done even if there are DETOURS.
Expanding on INITIATIVE you need to be willing to MOVE and ACT FAST. Its in your attitude and in your movement. At the same time you need to be we WILLING to do the JOB WELL. Whatever the JOB may be, you need to be willing to do it. In terms of coworkers or teammates you need to COMPLIMENT THEM, and adjust yourself so that you find the common ground, and be patient when needed. Patient in this context can be being quiet and fully listening to the person even if you disagree or they are wrong, and seeing IF its the right time to share or WHEN it is the right time, which there may not be because YOU could actually be WRONG. So essentially as long as its clear within yourself and the other person that what matters is getting the JOB done, then it doesn't matter if you do it ONE way or ANOTHER way, as long as it gets done. If the other person isn't clear about this point, then YES say something because they are not doing their job so that is unacceptable.
Another dimension is Personal Safety, well being and Responsibility. Each one is responsible for making sure what they do is safe. You can blame anyone else all you want, Making sure you are safe is your responsibility. At the same time, you don't want to be over cautious. Being a Man means knowing when to STOP something and when to PUSH past your limits, and knowing the difference between that, and taking responsibility for that, and standing in that point EVEN if others disagree. Its a thin line, but your attitude and commitment to doing it RIGHT, within yourself, is achievable.
This is what I have learned and been living with and through my body. I can see in various people who never really worked a job in this way, I can see their weakness. I can also see their potential, and have even had SOME success in helping others get it. This ENTIRE physical reality is based on this Masculine energy of BUILDING THINGS, FIXING THINGS, Making things happen in the physical, Using your bodies. So essentially its learning how to use your body to the fullest, in conjunction with others in a teamwork context.
I notice a trend of people who only use their MINDS in their jobs and so NEVER got to integrate using their bodies in their job and fully OWNING it, get lost and become very weak. That's not to say though that the issue of your THOUGHTS, EMOTIONS, and FEELINGS are all solved and can be ignored. Because it can be these very points of the Mind that prevent you from fully integrating and living with your Body in the moment to Create with it and AS it. For more about the mind visit Desteni.org and all the various websites. See links to the Side ------>
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