Yogan's Journey to Life

I have been through abusive situations with various people. And in each situation I haven't stood up for whats best for all. I will write out several of these situations. What happened. What I said, and did, and what the other person said and did. I will also describe how I felt. I will then write out how to stand up to the abuse so that it becomes what is best for all. Abusive situation #1 A person wanted to discuss something with me and I was not interested. They got upset. They insisted and I also insisted no. Eventually they said I'm gonna take this glass and smash it over your head. I immediately felt scared, threatened and intimidated. I have been living with this fear for 2 years. And it has forever changed how I viewed this person and how we relate. In that situation though I didn't say anything. I retreated. I was scared. Now, what should I have done? Putting myself back in that situation in my Imagination, and memory, I see I should have said the following:...

So in one of my previous blogs : How to remove specialness by removing opposites, I asked the question whether opposites exist. I had the answer that no, they don't really exist, but in our minds as a creation. And another I discovered was that by removing opposites you also remove specialness. Now I wish to look at a deeper dimension, that by removing opposites you will also remove the "opposite" of specialness. So what is the opposite of specialness? I identify that as victimization. How to remove specialness: by removing opposites. Day 191 - See more at: http://yoganjourneytolife.blogspot.com/2014/11/how-to-remove-specialness-by-removing.html#sthash.QauGPt1O.dpuf How to remove specialness: by removing opposites. Day 191 - See more at: http://yoganjourneytolife.blogspot.com/2014/11/how-to-remove-specialness-by-removing.html#sthash.QauGPt1O.dpuf How to remove specialness: by removing opposites. Day 191 - See more at: http://yoganjourneytolife.blogspot.com/2014...