Yogan's Journey to Life

So, I highly advise you read my latest blogs, and all the articles/material from Desteni. Because there it covers all the dimensions that I won't be covering in this blog. There are many problems with love and relationships. In this blog your mind will perceive it as me talking about the positive things of relationship the good. So let's talk about it. Even though this will sound GOOD, it is not good. It just is. It's truth. Only your mind perceives it as good. Okay. So relationships are natural, inevitable. Every relationship you have an opportunity to grow, to learn about yourself through another. You know those great relationships? Great people in your life? The ones you laugh with, smile with and enjoy? So those exist or existed or will exist. Remember that for a moment. One thing that is certain is the relationship will end. Because death is certain. Who are you when you no longer have the relationship. You are mourning, and sad. You are torn. Ever...

When I judge someone as special, I fear doing something they disapprove. I wish to be in their approval. Also, I see them as someone that I can abuse and treat badly sometimes. And that I can abuse and treat badly others that are not them. For many people, family is like this. You treat your family both special and also horribly. You both listen to them and seek their approval, and seek to annoy them. Such is the life for many people. Can life be better? A better life is when we include all people in our consideration where there is a freedom within equality. Where you don't seek family approval, but instead live in a way that is truly in harmony with ALL, including yourself as you are part of all. All means all plants too, and all animals, and Earth and existence, as well as people. I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to not make everyone equally special, and so realizing special is an illusion, and instead a harmony and balance with existence is needed.

Im not the only one So these words are specific, "Im not the only one." At first glance, they might not seem much, however I ask you to look at these words with me: "I'm not the only one," and join me in asking ourselves have I really lived these words and the realization/truth that they are? In my life in totality, I haven't because I have for the most part only considered ME, and my life, and what mattered to me. I wasn't considering other people, and their lives. Today there was one such instance that I would like to draw upon within redefining and changing me, and my behavior and how I relate to others, and this world. I won't go into the details, like dates, facts and names, about this event, but the principles and nature of the event is important. I was reacting to a specific person, and it was a rather unusual and peculiar reaction. So I was working at understanding what is going on here, until I came to the point that I am not the only...

So in one of my previous blogs : How to remove specialness by removing opposites, I asked the question whether opposites exist. I had the answer that no, they don't really exist, but in our minds as a creation. And another I discovered was that by removing opposites you also remove specialness. Now I wish to look at a deeper dimension, that by removing opposites you will also remove the "opposite" of specialness. So what is the opposite of specialness? I identify that as victimization. How to remove specialness: by removing opposites. Day 191 - See more at: http://yoganjourneytolife.blogspot.com/2014/11/how-to-remove-specialness-by-removing.html#sthash.QauGPt1O.dpuf How to remove specialness: by removing opposites. Day 191 - See more at: http://yoganjourneytolife.blogspot.com/2014/11/how-to-remove-specialness-by-removing.html#sthash.QauGPt1O.dpuf How to remove specialness: by removing opposites. Day 191 - See more at: http://yoganjourneytolife.blogspot.com/2014...