Living Happiness and Feeling Happiness
Happiness.
There is something programmed into us that when we become parents or caretakers of children or animals/pets, we start to feel a kind of joy, happiness or love that consumes us. Where we feel this way that feels so good. Buts it is not a happiness that you live or direct. It is a happiness that is a reaction, something you just feel with your kids you care for or the animals/pets you care for. So that the day they may die or be taken from you, you are filled with an inexplicably powerful sadness/depression that you cannot stop.
What is interesting is that what is BEST for your kids and pets is that you don't feel this way. Instead, what is best is that you LIVE happiness as yourself, where you JOIN them in LIVING. Be an equal with them. Doing this will teach them as well to do the same and become the same as you. Because Living Happiness is not something that can be taken away. You are not riding the waves of energy when you Live Happiness as yourself. It won't end in you feeling sad/depressed/lost.
Imagine or Remember how you were when you were a child. How there were moments that you were just happy just because. No particular reason, you just were happy. You enjoyed the moment. This is Living Happiness. Not because of something you felt, but because of who you were. The same kind of happiness a dog Lives.
When you Live happiness, you will just smile just cause, for no particular reason. You will feel good just cause, a feeling that is just being aware of your body, just feeling what your body feels. When you Live happiness you will just express yourself, just sing, just talk, just joke around just cause. You don't need a reason. You just have fun, just live. You enjoy yourself and enjoy the moment cause you can. That is real happiness.
It is much different when you say that your friends, your kids, your pets bring you happiness. That spending time with them is what makes you happy. It is different when you must go to them, or have them in your life, or something in your life. It is different when you can't find anyway to be happy without someone or some people. That dependency shows you cannot create happiness or express it from yourself. It shows you need someone to bring it out of you.
There is something programmed into us that when we become parents or caretakers of children or animals/pets, we start to feel a kind of joy, happiness or love that consumes us. Where we feel this way that feels so good. Buts it is not a happiness that you live or direct. It is a happiness that is a reaction, something you just feel with your kids you care for or the animals/pets you care for. So that the day they may die or be taken from you, you are filled with an inexplicably powerful sadness/depression that you cannot stop.
What is interesting is that what is BEST for your kids and pets is that you don't feel this way. Instead, what is best is that you LIVE happiness as yourself, where you JOIN them in LIVING. Be an equal with them. Doing this will teach them as well to do the same and become the same as you. Because Living Happiness is not something that can be taken away. You are not riding the waves of energy when you Live Happiness as yourself. It won't end in you feeling sad/depressed/lost.
Imagine or Remember how you were when you were a child. How there were moments that you were just happy just because. No particular reason, you just were happy. You enjoyed the moment. This is Living Happiness. Not because of something you felt, but because of who you were. The same kind of happiness a dog Lives.
When you Live happiness, you will just smile just cause, for no particular reason. You will feel good just cause, a feeling that is just being aware of your body, just feeling what your body feels. When you Live happiness you will just express yourself, just sing, just talk, just joke around just cause. You don't need a reason. You just have fun, just live. You enjoy yourself and enjoy the moment cause you can. That is real happiness.
It is much different when you say that your friends, your kids, your pets bring you happiness. That spending time with them is what makes you happy. It is different when you must go to them, or have them in your life, or something in your life. It is different when you can't find anyway to be happy without someone or some people. That dependency shows you cannot create happiness or express it from yourself. It shows you need someone to bring it out of you.
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