How to be a real friend 326
So how to be a real friend?
So a real friend is someone who will stick by you no matter what. So the question is, how should these two people, these two friends interact. And I mean this is an important question because normally, with normal people, so with most people, you are not and they are not real friends. They won't stick by you no matter what. No that is simply not the case. And so, yes, you have to manipulate, you have to be careful and sly with your words. And too, with a real friend you have to be careful with your words, but in a different way. With a real friend, your words need to be real. With someone who is not a real friends, your words must also be real, but perhaps diluted, as sometimes the realness is too much for them. Let's then ask the question how shall I talk to my friend?
Soooooo.... understand the context, this is a true compradre, a true brothers in arms. ok? They will stick by you. So really, how you should talk is practicality. No bullshit, no emotions, no anger, no righteous. Purely what is best for both of you. You nor them are trying to convince, trick, or manipulate the other. Neither of you pretend to be a victim, or try to snuff the other one out. Now, one clear positive flag is that both of you cut to the chase. You stick to what is important. You also are not arrogant or believe you are right no matter what. You are humble and always keep the door open to your friend. So you are both direct, yet here, because you neither your friend pose a threat, because you are both doing what is best for both of you.
So a real friend is someone who will stick by you no matter what. So the question is, how should these two people, these two friends interact. And I mean this is an important question because normally, with normal people, so with most people, you are not and they are not real friends. They won't stick by you no matter what. No that is simply not the case. And so, yes, you have to manipulate, you have to be careful and sly with your words. And too, with a real friend you have to be careful with your words, but in a different way. With a real friend, your words need to be real. With someone who is not a real friends, your words must also be real, but perhaps diluted, as sometimes the realness is too much for them. Let's then ask the question how shall I talk to my friend?
Soooooo.... understand the context, this is a true compradre, a true brothers in arms. ok? They will stick by you. So really, how you should talk is practicality. No bullshit, no emotions, no anger, no righteous. Purely what is best for both of you. You nor them are trying to convince, trick, or manipulate the other. Neither of you pretend to be a victim, or try to snuff the other one out. Now, one clear positive flag is that both of you cut to the chase. You stick to what is important. You also are not arrogant or believe you are right no matter what. You are humble and always keep the door open to your friend. So you are both direct, yet here, because you neither your friend pose a threat, because you are both doing what is best for both of you.
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