“…simply make things better for someone else, as if I were to be born again, and that someone else, and it doesn't have to be me, but it could be someone like me, that they would have a better life than I had, that everyone was better. There is something seriously wrong with everyone, and that is something I observed when I was very young. We are the problem, and we need to become better, because we are fucking everything up.”
“So this is who I am. There is something seriously wrong with everyone and we need to fix it, if not for us, then for the future generations."
"Everything I have done in this life, and everything I will do, is for this purpose.”

Saturday, July 23, 2016

Some Tools for Becoming Better

Self-forgiveness, Self-responsibility and Self-Honesty are tools that provide structure that supports a person to better himself.  For example, I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to think I am dumb when I make a mistake. This example uses self-responsibility because the person takes responsibility for thinking the thought by saying that he was the one thinking this thought. It uses self-honesty because he was honest with himself that he was thinking this thought and that stopping this thought betters himself. It uses self-forgiveness because he says that he forgives himself for thinking this thought.

 Why and how do these tools work? The source of the power is self or the person himself. So it works because the person is self-honest when forgiving himself and self-honest when taking responsibility. So the person really is forgiving himself, and taking responsibility, which means that he will make the changes that betters himself.

When can one use these tools? In any moment one can use them, and if one wants to become his best potential self then in every moment one will take self-responsibility, be self-honest and live self-forgiveness. Whenever a moment is presented to better oneself in, self-forgiveness as a statement can help.

How can one use these tools? A person can use their mind to silently do self-forgiveness, or he can write it down, or speak it aloud. Self-responsibility and self-honesty are lived when doing self-forgiveness, as well as all three tools are lived when one lives the change of behavior or living. In any moment one can test oneself by asking whether he is self-honest, self-responsible, and self-forgiving.

Who uses these tools? Whomever decides to use them.  Currently a entire community of people that spans the world uses these tools. They are called Desteni. It started when a few people discovered the tools and tested them out. They shared the tools with others and so Desteni was born. Desteni is dedicated to becoming the best people possible that honor and regard all forms of life. www.Desteni.org

See some of my Recent Posts:
 Everyone is God
 Todos Somos Dios
The Desire for a Life-Long Partner Test

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