Yogan's Guide to living a Good life 281

These are the four points that my mind tries its best to put pressure on me.
1. Sex
2. Money
3. Friendships
4. Relationships
Let's see who comes out on top.

For each I have my self stand. The following is where I stand with each:
1. With sex, I don't need it. I wouldn't compromise any other aspect of my life for sex. I would always choose something else over this, if it meant compromising myself. Sex is merely a pleasure point, and is a non-essential point. At the same time, sex is a tool, a way for me to explore my self-expression within a situation, which I have said, is non-essential. Therefore, in a way, it provides a space for seeing who I am, and practice self-movement. I wouldn't compromise myself whatsoever, in terms of getting a sexual partner, for the purpose of sex. I rather stick to masturbation, or sex with myself, because then there is no risk for such consequences as STD, as well as wasting my time with someone that is a waste of my time, and I would only be with them for the sex. That would be just stupid. Porn is also a waste of time for the same reason = no self-expression.

Now for those that think i support celibacy or masturbation, if I was in a situation where my needs were taken care of, and there is someone worthy of spending my time with, a female, and I had a normal amount of responsibility, then yes I would have sex, probably every other day. And if I was in some magical place where responsibility for other things weren't needed, meaning you just care for yourself, then yeah I would have more time and have sex way more. Why? Because its fun and enjoyable. Responsibility comes first, and enjoyment sexond (lol, typo).  Right now I am very good with masturbating with myself, through physical movement, creating an orgasm immediately, because I have done that for many years. It took practice, the same would be for sex, as well as anything else. The more time you give... you know the story. I would have to admit that not knowing exactly what another person is doing (while they touch you creating a pattern/rhythm of their own), is interesting. Yet I am also surprised at how good I got when being with myself alone. So you never know, the point is to not judge prematurely, but learn.

2. Money is only something I need, because I need food, water, etc... But really, I don't need money per se. I do need to have my needs met, which can be met in other ways, possibly. I also don't desire money. I don't want money. I would NEVER compromise myself for money. Myself is infinitely more valuable than money. That is why I would do things such as kill, murder, if it meant my survival. But I wouldn't sacrifice or kill for money. At the same time, I would sacrifice myself self, depending on what it is I am sacrificing for. You can already say what I am living right now, my decision, is a sacrifice of all the other possible routes and decisions I could have made. So money, can't continue how it is. It will change, and it will be through my effort, as a part of an entire movement to change it. Money won't represent survival, it can represent entertainment, that is fine, but anything related to survival, things that people will kill for, it won't represent. Those things will be given unconditionally. People wouldn't kill for a plasma TV. They will kill for Food. I am in no way defined by how much money I have.

Money isn't evil, nor the root of evil. That is just stupid to say or think. It's like talking to an inanimate object, "Hey! You're evil." While the person using the object for the alleged evil actions, gets away with it, lol. IF I HAD millions, right now, I would invest it right away in changing this world. There is NO POINT to holding money. If you have funds, invest it in the people that will change this world into best for all. Also, if I had millions, I would live VERY humbly, so that I can dedicate and focus all my time on making this world into what is best for all. Right now, what sucks is that I have to work to make a money, just so that in my free time I can invest in making this world into what is best for all. So remember, money is never the problem, is just not having enough of it, lol. If everyone had enough money, what would happen? Money is just paper. It's sad that we can't just see that, and realize that we are denying to people food, water, medicine, housing, education etc... Money is the perfect scape goat, the most innocent victim that we blame for everything, and hate, and react to. Money is paper. What has paper ever done to you? The truth is and always will be that the human done it. The humans are the ones that denied you. Partly because you haven't stood up and demand the right to life, to money, for yourself and everyone you know. Have you done that? And have you dedicate to making that a reality. If these words move you then donate to people that already have dedicated to do this, because you haven't made the commitment yet, they are the better investment. But if you decide to commit, then welcome to the family. http://livingincome.me/

3. I don't need any friends, and I don't want any friends. People can choose to talk to me. The same that I can choose to talk to other people. I am not defined by the number of friends I have. I am completely happy with myself alone. I don't need someone to make me feel better.

People are just people. People are not your emotions, or feelings. People are not your savior or anything. People cannot replace yourself. You can become God of this existence, and have EVERYONE follow you and become your absolute puppet, literally to the greatest degree. That they would do ANYTHING for you. They will tell you EXACTLY what you want to hear. Yet... you already know that is meaningless. Even if they were 300% sincere, and did so at their freewill. You would still feel empty...............empty...... because people cannot replace yourself. They can aid you in seeing and recognizing yourself, they can serve as mirrors that show to you, who you are, through example. They can give you hints, ideas, and small little openings into yourself. But you are the ONE that will walk through and to yourself, and standing within the position of self-support and self-responsibility, and self-forgiveness in your life. You are the ONLY ONE that can do that. So cherish yourself, respect yourself, CARE for you. And for god sakes, stop looking for yourself in relationships, friendships etc... It won't work. And if you want to die never knowing who you are, then be my guest. You have my permission, lol.

4. So for relationships, I refer to all human relationships, so familial relationships, coworkers, everyone. I only respect people for how much respect they have for Life. If they have no respect, then they are dead to me, because that means they literally have no value, worth, and not worth my consideration. So this nonsense, of certain people meaning more to me, because they are family, or because they know me for X number of years, is ridiculous. The only value that is exist, is the value you have. You determine your value, not me. And that value is the value you have for Life.

Everything you do, you DOooo to whooo? To youuuuu. Simple.

For the mind's point of view, just picture the opposite of what I said. So basically sex has value, money has value, friends have value, and all relationships of value, and this value is more than Life's value. So this is the lie that has been told for soooo long, that it is believed to be true.

It's so funny that the things that are made from Life, are separated within the mind levels. Meaning that you literally have Life all around you and literally your noses, not just in front of your nose, but your actual nose, yet you can't see it... And what is absolutely roll-licking, belly slapping funny, is that knowing this is not enough for you to see it. Isn't that hilarious? Even if you truly believed what I am telling you, you still won't see it. That is our situation. And it is quite dire. But funny. Because the only one that will make sure that you make it, can only be Who? You. Only you can show yourself the truth of who you are. And your greatest assets within all of this, you have had them since birth. The amazing Duo, that can never be beat. The two and only, Mind and Body. They have continuously, and endlessly been supporting you in both staying Alive, but also for the very purpose that you see and recognize who you are. Where someone could literally ask you, or even yourself, asking yourself, who am I? And you can answer that, with detail, with a history with an understanding and intimate knowledge of the inner workings of yourself, which even if I had access to who YOU are, and could write it down, it would fill novels. So, forget about the idea that I could even tell you or really even show you who you are. I can only share what I have learned, and then your on your own. You have been on your own this whole time, technically. No one has really ever helped you to see who you are, to question you, to provide some assistance, support, of at least pointing you to the right direction, or a good place to start. Nope. We don't talk about these things. Why? Lol, there isn't a good answer. But its frankly because everyone doesn't even know who they are. So, how can they even talk about something they have absolutely no idea about.

So, who are you? Remember this question, you'll need it eventually, when you are ready, 

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