Blame Game! Are you ready for level 2? Games for life! 278
Let's play a game.
I challenge you to not have any blame. So list everyone that you blame. Here is a generic list.
1. Politicians
2. Government
3. Corporations
4. Millionairs/Billionaires
5. Ceos
6. Society
7. Teachers
8. Parents
9. Siblings
10. Authority
So Mark off everyone that you blame. With this list, stop the blame. For each person, look at what you are blaming this person/people for, and see how you could change/act that would support the outcome that your prefer. To stop the blame, simply focus on yourself and acting in the way that will create what you want. So the trick to stopping blame is to take more responsibility.
Okay, so are you ready for level 2?
Level 2 is taking it to the next level. It is to see whether you will change when things change around you. So you have to be able to stay the same, be the same person even when things around you become extreme. So in your mind, imagine extreme situations, and challenge yourself to stay the same. Assuming that you stand by principles, challenge your principles in your mind. Here is a generic list of principles.
1. Self-respect
2. Self-support/Self-care
3. Self-Honesty
4. Self-responsibility
5. Self-Authority
6. Self-forgiveness
7. Self-Correction
So for each principles challenge yourself and see where you fall, in what imaginary situation would you NOT stick to a principle. So for example, where/what situation will you not have self-respect, where you will not support yourself, where you will not take responsibility for yourself, where/when you won't forgive yourself, where/when you won't take authority over yourself, etc...
Wherever you see that you won't stand by a principle, make the decision to stand and make that as who you are.
For a practical course in developing your principles, and learning about who you are, your past, history, and mind patterns, see lite.desteniiprocess.com
I challenge you to not have any blame. So list everyone that you blame. Here is a generic list.
1. Politicians
2. Government
3. Corporations
4. Millionairs/Billionaires
5. Ceos
6. Society
7. Teachers
8. Parents
9. Siblings
10. Authority
So Mark off everyone that you blame. With this list, stop the blame. For each person, look at what you are blaming this person/people for, and see how you could change/act that would support the outcome that your prefer. To stop the blame, simply focus on yourself and acting in the way that will create what you want. So the trick to stopping blame is to take more responsibility.
Okay, so are you ready for level 2?
Level 2 is taking it to the next level. It is to see whether you will change when things change around you. So you have to be able to stay the same, be the same person even when things around you become extreme. So in your mind, imagine extreme situations, and challenge yourself to stay the same. Assuming that you stand by principles, challenge your principles in your mind. Here is a generic list of principles.
1. Self-respect
2. Self-support/Self-care
3. Self-Honesty
4. Self-responsibility
5. Self-Authority
6. Self-forgiveness
7. Self-Correction
So for each principles challenge yourself and see where you fall, in what imaginary situation would you NOT stick to a principle. So for example, where/what situation will you not have self-respect, where you will not support yourself, where you will not take responsibility for yourself, where/when you won't forgive yourself, where/when you won't take authority over yourself, etc...
Wherever you see that you won't stand by a principle, make the decision to stand and make that as who you are.
For a practical course in developing your principles, and learning about who you are, your past, history, and mind patterns, see lite.desteniiprocess.com
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