Day 880 What's really here

 Looking here in this moment, what exists as this moment. There is primarily me, the one who is seeing/observing everything and who I am determines what I am seeing/perceiving. Things like opinions, beliefs and bias is indication of the myself that is my relationship to things. And that relationships is not the truth. And it is my duty to clear up those relationships so that I can simply perceive the truth or what is really here. 

The deeper and the more that I work on myself, on my mind, on my information, on my relationships, the more I know who I am, and perceive the truth. 

    We shouldn't hold people to expectations as a form of anger or blame. We must be able to accept the failings of others, so that we can focus on helping where we can. Keeping others to standards as a form of simply blame, instead of assisting practically through actions, is something selfish instead. In essence then forgiveness is not holding others to standards or expectations within blame/anger, and instead simply immediately see how can practical help be given. 

    When your livelihood is at stake, when your money is at stake, blame and anger still wont change anything. What matters is simply practical actions. It is the deception of punishment, and revenge which is evident in our criminal and justice systems and so laws, that perpetuate this way of thinking in all aspects of our lives. And we make it so that survival and money is more than other situations, and thus warrant emotional possessions. When that is a choice. 

    And when you are dealing with someone who is lying, the way you can approach them is is simply speak with them until the truth is evident. Because through an extensive conversation can you see the truth of what they stand for. If they avoid speaking, if they avoid talking, then you know they are lying. And so you must act practically with the truth. 

    When it comes to your relationships with people in your life, you must know where you stand with them, instead of living within a fantasy of a relationship. Because to build in reality, requires working with reality. If you avoid reality, then you will simply swirl within thoughts throughout your day about a fantasy that you aren't willing to confront. 

    In reality some people do lie, and some are untrustworthy. And some are trustworthy, and want to help you. So its up to you create your life, and create your relationships. There is much work to be done, and that can only be done in reality with other real people, who must be real as well. 

Time to wakeup.

Isn't it clear that to be the kind of leader for others, you need to not only speak the truth and live the truth, but also see who is lying, and living lies, and thus who speak truth as well? And you shouldn't be afraid to ask questions to anyone. Our time is only useful if we are working with the Truth, otherwise its wasted. Don't waste your time.