The Self is the key. You are the key. If you want to make things better, focus on yourself. Do you have a relationship with yourself? Are you able to hold yourself and know yourself? Do you know what you are feeling? Do you know what you are thinking? Are you here with yourself? Do you Know yourself?

Self is the Key. You are the Key. You have the power. You are the power. You need to know the power. You need to know yourself. You need to know who you are right now in this moment in what you are thinking and feeling. And you need to start stopping whatever it is that is not best for you. You need to start stopping that which is harmful to Life.

Be the Self that is Free from all limitation, pain, abuse, destruction, and full of creation, ability, and potential. You start becoming through self-forgiveness.

Would you like to have a relationship with Your self?

Friday, March 25, 2016

A Violent Person

Where does violence come from? How is violence created?

When I had acted violently, it was either in a blackout, which means I wasn't aware of what I was doing,  or it was in awareness where I felt angry, pumped, energetic, rage, and I made sweeping movements and gestures that were not precise or exact but done to make a point or statement that I am not to be messed with. So it seems fair to say that violence is based within what you have thought and felt beforehand for a long period of time, because it both cases I was provoked by certain individuals over a long period of time of months or years. The exception to this rule is when violence is made purposefully, with cold calculation and precision. I haven't done this, myself, so I can't speak from my own experience, however when it is a very well known fact that soldiers that come back from war, who have killed people, are traumatized. They have deep emotional experiences, thoughts, and vivid memories that revisit them. In addition, soldiers have to go through bootcamp, which is also by design and is well-known to be brutal so as to prepare the soldiers to kill. To suddenly, and instantly gain the ability to kill a person, in one moment is simply not possible and doesn't happen. A baby isn't born with the ability, or capacity to kill or act violently in any way. So violence is something that is learned, and is created through time, through an accumulation of experiences that allow an act of violence to occur.

Looking at the case of insane individuals, even they were once babies. So they were not insane at that time. However it is possible that some defect or problem in their bodies affected the development of their minds that allowed for the insanity to develop. In addition, it has been well documented that in the case of a young girl that was chained in the basement, and abused physically, and sexually by her father, since presumably birth, that when she was rescued as a young girl, that she had thoughts of violence and aggression towards the members of her foster family. However, through time she eventually changed and felt embarrassment about the thoughts of violence she had. You can google : "the story of Genie" to read on this story. It is also well known that individuals that were physically abused as children will go on to physically abuse their own children. I am fortunate that my own father broke the cycle in his family, where he had been physically abused as a child and made the decision to not do the same with his kids. Thus proving and showing the Human person can change.

Looking at this evidence of change that my father made, something is very apparent. That Violence is a decision. Violence is a decision you make, every single time that you think about acting violently, that is the decision to act violently. You act on what you think. Violence then, comes from where? From your mind and thoughts, and what you feel about what you think or imagine doing, or to what you feel or think about what you see. In fact, the nature of what you feel is violent. That just makes sense. The aggression, hate, jealousy, rage, irritation, frustration, is violent to yourself, and your physical body, as well as your Who You Are. That is the nature of those emotions, and that is what resonates in your actions, and so into your environment, through your body. Your facial features become tight, your fists clench, your teeth clench, you become rigid and tight, and your heart rate increases. Violence shapes your body. It shapes your attitude, your perception, your entire self. Violence is an accumulation of individual moments where you accepted and allowed violent thoughts and violent emotions.

This is apparently not a secret because the military prepares their soldiers for acts of violence. The methods and training regime indicates that they are aware that you must change and shape a person into someone that acts violently. Violence isn't natural and isn't present at birth. It is learned. It is created over a period of time.

Even though the military is aware of how to prepare their soldiers of violence, the general population isn't aware of how one becomes violent. Because in society we have beliefs existent that say a person is a violent person, that they are who they are, and they cannot change, and also assuming that they have always been this way. But this simply isn't true, and the evidence is within how we are all born as babies as innocent, pure, without a history, and within people who have changed their violence to some degree. The ignorance about HOW people create Who They Are is the problem. Where for the most part we haven't been aware of how we Became the person we are today. That deliberate and calculated decisions were not made to become the best individual possible. Instead we sort of just became who we are, like being on a game show or at a casino where you simply get the prize that you get. That this is simply who you are and there is nothing you can really do about it. Apparently the military doesn't think so, otherwise they wouldn't have any soldiers because no one is born a soldier. Soldiers are made.

To me, spending time to uncovering Who You Are, and from that newfound awareness, making changes to Who You Are, so that you become better and more improved, continuously, daily for your entire life seems to be a completely natural and essential way to live as a Human Being. That is what it means to live, to actually create your life! And Who You Are is the most influential factor in your life! So, other people have realized this and so they have been working on this for years now, and they are helping others by sharing the how they have been doing what I have been talking about. Uncovering who they are, and actually changing who they are. This is their websites:

SOUL – The School of Ultimate Living is an online
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eqafe.com – Invest in a wide range of Interviews and Support yourself to Self Perfection
Journey To Life Blogs – Read the blogs from those walking the 7 year journey to life.
Self and Living – Practical Living Support To Live to Your Utmost Potential
DIP Lite – Free Online Course to get you started with learning the Tools of Self Support
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