Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Day 16- Love at first Sight?
Oct 1 2012
I saw X, I slowed down to say hi. ( I saw she was looking away and I thought she might be embarrassed) I was watching her eyes as I was telling her: How are you? She responded, good you? (I did not consider she was simply expressing herself) I kept walking, I thought then, imagined, I had told her: I was sitting outside if you wanted to join me. (I had imagined she would like to sit with me) I then reacted in fear, and told myself no, im going to go sit outside like I planned. I went to the spot I had told myself I was going to sit. I thought there would be too many people walking by that it would be awkward. (I thought she would see me sitting close by yet I separated myself fro everyone else) I also thought it would be not sunny, so not cool. I started then heading somewhere there was sun, outside. I had then imagined if I had asked X out, to which I reacted positively (I imagined she would have said yes to me). But I see this point is just in my mind and that I would never do this, yet I feeding this image this thought of me doing this. (I am keeping my secret inside that I would think X would like to go out with me) I see that it is feeding my ego, as I judge X to be great and fantastic and that a girl like that going out with me would be amazing, as she seems stable and cool. (I think she would be great at sex) I would see myself having fun within that relationship (sex). I have this idea then that relationship’s primary point is fun (sex). But as I have learned in my most recent blog, a relationship won’t stand unless both persons can stand together as equals as creators creating themselves with a real being, being informed/aware of the creation intimately. Both being honest to the slightest dishonesty and stupidity of the self. And then correcting together and walking from there as life is a process where we continuously create.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to not consider that agreement is a commitment oneself makes for oneself to stand and walk with another.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to react positively to imagining asking X out.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to think it is normal to react to the thoughts you think.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to express happiness as a way to selectively raise certain relationships instead of expressing myself equally (quality) with all points.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to not share myself as time, effort, and self with all.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to think about certain beings only.
When and as I see myself feel happy while thinking about certain beings, I stop and I breathe – I realize that all is here and all is equal – I realize there is no specialness or inequality with life –
I commit myself to be practical within my tasks by not allowing emotional reactions to move me in any context
I commit myself to apply commonsense within my tasks.
I commit myself to find a way to do what is best for all in my tasks, and time on this earth.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to not realize that I am I process of creating myself in every moment.
To be continued............................................................................................................................