Popularity, Likeability, loveability
Popularity, Likeability, loveability.
Now, something everyone faces is when you are faced with people or persons, and someone, perhaps even you, has a form of like or dislike with another person. A simple point, no? However, can one person's opinion, belief, or view point of a person ever completely represent who that person is in fact?
For some the answer may be difficult to say and face. The answer is no. However, how many times has each of us witnessed, or committed ourself to such a point of view? Plenty of times, no?
This isn't an easy point to work with, because you are dealing with emotions here. There can be anger, irritation, annoyance, even love or joy. The difficulty here is to be able to really see the person for who they are currently, without getting stuck in seeing one point, either positive or negative. Not only that, things can become even more complex when you are stuck within your own reaction towards a singular part of a person, thus even failing to really see and comprehend even that one point of the person that you are reacting to.
So what's the solution here?
The solution is to eventually through time, practice and dedication come to a point where you can see objectively all the different parts of a person, and including who they are in various levels, from the surface into their deep layers. This includes too their potential for change, and who they are in the core of their being.
How do you do this practically? I suggest to take the desteni I process course, as it walks you step by step into how to actually do that. There is an introductory DIP lite course, where you can try out the support system and course material without having to pay anything, which includes the invaluable live person support, called the buddy.
We all require help to walk our own mind, to understand it, investigate it, and see it for what it is.
Now, something everyone faces is when you are faced with people or persons, and someone, perhaps even you, has a form of like or dislike with another person. A simple point, no? However, can one person's opinion, belief, or view point of a person ever completely represent who that person is in fact?
For some the answer may be difficult to say and face. The answer is no. However, how many times has each of us witnessed, or committed ourself to such a point of view? Plenty of times, no?
This isn't an easy point to work with, because you are dealing with emotions here. There can be anger, irritation, annoyance, even love or joy. The difficulty here is to be able to really see the person for who they are currently, without getting stuck in seeing one point, either positive or negative. Not only that, things can become even more complex when you are stuck within your own reaction towards a singular part of a person, thus even failing to really see and comprehend even that one point of the person that you are reacting to.
So what's the solution here?
The solution is to eventually through time, practice and dedication come to a point where you can see objectively all the different parts of a person, and including who they are in various levels, from the surface into their deep layers. This includes too their potential for change, and who they are in the core of their being.
How do you do this practically? I suggest to take the desteni I process course, as it walks you step by step into how to actually do that. There is an introductory DIP lite course, where you can try out the support system and course material without having to pay anything, which includes the invaluable live person support, called the buddy.
We all require help to walk our own mind, to understand it, investigate it, and see it for what it is.
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