“…simply make things better for someone else, as if I were to be born again, and that someone else, and it doesn't have to be me, but it could be someone like me, that they would have a better life than I had, that everyone was better. There is something seriously wrong with everyone, and that is something I observed when I was very young. We are the problem, and we need to become better, because we are fucking everything up.”
“So this is who I am. There is something seriously wrong with everyone and we need to fix it, if not for us, then for the future generations."
"Everything I have done in this life, and everything I will do, is for this purpose.”

Thursday, August 11, 2016

Share what you know

There is a responsibility for those that have access to life experience to share it. If you have experience, knowledge or training that protects you from harm, you have a responsibility to share that with those who don't have it, so that they are protected. If you see someone who is naive, and lacking the knowledge, you have the responsibility to support them to learn so as to protect themselves. IF you have knowledge or training that helps you to do something faster or better, you have the responsibility to share what you know with those who don't know so that they can do something faster or better. Otherwise, they won't know and they maybe will learn after making many mistakes, maybe. So if they harm themselves because they didn't know, it is your fault/responsibility for not sharing the information. If they choose to not listen or apply the information, you have the responsibility to insist, and even to protect them from themselves. If you allow them to harm themselves, it is your responsibility. You have the responsibility to make sure that they are okay, healthy, well, and know how to take care of themselves. If you don't know about how to do something safely, or that something is dangerous, then you don't know. The fact is you don't know what you don't know. And if you ask for help, someone may not even know, but they can say they know.

If you don't know or have no training, the best is to find someone who you is actively trying to train you and show you how to do something, and explain everything to you. The best is someone who is watching out for you, for your safety and well-being, and isn't going to leave you in harms way. The best is someone who cares for your safety, and is helping you to become the best by sharing everything they know, that they have applied and know for themselves. The best is to work with someone who actually knows what they are doing and have been applying what they are teaching you. The best is if they embody certain words like safety, caution, respect, regard, consideration, effective, efficient, healthy, well, easy, simple, careful. 

My advice is to watch out for those who are looking to take advantage of you, that will leave you in harms way, that will allow harm to come to you because it is better for them, it saves them time or money or effort. Watch out for those who are being very friendly to you and very kind so that they can make you feel better, so that you drop your guard and trust them. There are some people in those who do this to gain advantage. It could be so that you will help them and give them favors, or that you work for them and make them money because they are the boss. It could be even that they want to have your company so that they don't feel alone. Essentially any case where they are being selfish to gain an advantage for themselves, at your cost, and they are using your naivety, innocence, or willingness to see everyone as "good." The fact is not everyone is good. Some will take advantage of you and abuse you.

It can protect yourself by watching out for signs of someone who is not respecting you as a person. And one sign of this is making sure you are safe and know what you are doing. Someone that is watching out for you. Someone who shares what they know to make sure that you know. Someone that does everything within their power to live their responsibility of making sure you are well.

People that are easy targets are people that are innocent and don't know. So know now, to protect yourself, from people who are looking to take advantage of what you don't know. Watch out for people that are looking for you to trust them, that use kindness to seduce you. Watch out for yourself, protect yourself.

Tell the difference between someone who is doing their utmost for taking responsibility for themselves and those in their life, and someone who is not doing their utmost. See the difference between someone who is watching out for those around them, and someone who isn't. Don't pretend everyone good, or that no one is out there abusing and taking advantage. There is no one who taught me this. There is no one who watched out for my back. I can tell the difference now between someone who watches out for me, and someone who doesn't. I know that utmost potential. I know what it would look like. The difference between someone who cares and someone who doesn't. You and I have the responsibility to share what we know and what we realize for those who don't know. This is what you would have wanted for yourself. 

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