The Self is the key. You are the key. If you want to make things better, focus on yourself. Do you have a relationship with yourself? Are you able to hold yourself and know yourself? Do you know what you are feeling? Do you know what you are thinking? Are you here with yourself? Do you Know yourself?

Self is the Key. You are the Key. You have the power. You are the power. You need to know the power. You need to know yourself. You need to know who you are right now in this moment in what you are thinking and feeling. And you need to start stopping whatever it is that is not best for you. You need to start stopping that which is harmful to Life.

Be the Self that is Free from all limitation, pain, abuse, destruction, and full of creation, ability, and potential. You start becoming through self-forgiveness.

Would you like to have a relationship with Your self?

Thursday, March 24, 2016

You were once a Child

Here is a fact: take the most badass, meanest, toughest, scruffiest, harsh person on the planet. A person so harsh and violent that they would kill a child or baby just for fun.

You take that person, and realize this simple truth, when they were born they were just a baby, and they were innocent and pure. This is true for all of us. This is true for the strongest of us, the smartest of us, the dumbest, the most "evil" and most "good." We were born equally in this way/regard.

It is true though however, that we are not born the same. Some are born with mental or physical handicaps. Some are born with diseases. And our genetics do have an influence on us in some very unimportant superficial ways, and in some more consequential visible ways. Yet we are all still born innocent and pure. The concepts or character of being a badass, mean, tough, scruffy, or harsh doesn't exist in anyway whatsoever, at least apparently so.

Any person that will murder, will be "evil" or do harm of any kind, be it through financial abuse, physical abuse, emotional abuse, verbal abuse, violence, abuse of power, position or status, and even abuse through inaction.... all such people would have been but a child, and so in 20 years, any one that will be 20 years old, their future is being created now.

I do believe that there is a free choice. But I am not stupid to believe that somehow the experiences and history of a person is what that person draws upon when making their decision. So based on what they are already aware of, and based on what emotional patterns and patterns of thinking that have been dominant in their life for their 20 years on the planet, that is what will determine their choice. And the only way they could ever make a decision that is contrary to what their life experience dictates for them to choose, is if they would have an awareness that they have merely been acting out only what has been their experience thus far, which is limited, and so they could be misinformed. To have that awareness within oneself, which is like a space and breathing room, to reflect and see the basic truth that I am sharing with you today in this blog post. That the vast majority of us have simply been acting out our personal history of experiences, and so what thoughts we thought and what feelings and emotions we felt about our own experiences. And that doesn't equate to us being right in what we think, feel about something, and so what we decide based on what we think, feel and believe. That just means we have been irrationally justifying our own actions and decisions.

A clear example is someone who acts out violently. Hurting someone for pleasure or out of fear, is irrational. It is an emotionally based action. And it is self-justifying. It is not based in all the facts, and all the perspectives of everyone. It is based on one's own singular perspective, and so limited, and separated. It is based in the logic: because that is the way it has always been or how I have always done things: or that is just who I am.   The funny thing about this logic is that it is not true. It is a lie. Because as I have pointed out in the beginning, we are all born innocent, and pure. Proving that that was part of who you are. Also proving that whatever you may become will be a change, manipulation or shift from who you are. Therefore using the past to justify is actually irrational in itself.

So the same that goes with the violent man, the same goes for any many that says they are simply the way they are, because they have always been so. That isn't true. And the evidence is right here in this blog. Each of us had to go through a process of change that has spanned years, as well as occurring in every moment of every day. Where what you thought, felt and reacted about the situations you were in, about other people, and about yourself, and even about what you felt and thought.... that is what created the Who You Are that stands before you today, from when you were initially born as a baby, without any history.

One question is, are you able to change Who You Are, which essentially requires stepping out of your entire history of what you think, believe, and feel regarding what is right/wrong, what is good/bad, etc... The answer is yes you can. But you certainly can't do it without facing personal resistance and fear, because for some reason we all feel that way when it comes to changing who we are. Except that we didn't feel that way initially when we did in fact change constantly, daily, in each moment for our entire lives. The difference between now doing it, and having done it through our entire lives since we were an innocent baby, is that we weren't really aware of what we were doing... it kinda of just happened. We kind of accidentally stepped into Who We Are and created this life. Thus explaining why the prospective of actually creating and deciding who you are, outside of what you have always been, to appear so daunting and scary, because it is in fact New. It is something you would be doing for the first time ever, despite the fact that you are an adult.

And all of this is evidently true because of the simple truth that I presented at the beginning of this blog, that we are ALL born as innocent, pure babies without any history, and thus we have all developed and become individuals we are today. And given how crazy, and mad we are, this isn't a development that was done with careful awareness and calculation to create the absolute best person.

Part of the reason why we didn't become or develop into the best person is because our parents, and the people in our environment including friends, family, and general adults, are not the best people. Here I say best in terms of your real best self, not simply in comparison to other people, no. No one is achieving or have realized the best version of themselves, yet. And it just makes sense that children who lack all experience, are not receiving the proper role models. When you have kids you are merely creating another copy of yourself. Do you really want another you walking around on this earth? The problem is that the adults don't know how they created who they are. So how could they possible assist any child to create who they are? The numbers just don't add up. What we need are people that are aware that they are creating who they are, constantly, in every moment, with what they say, think, feel, and act upon. These people would be revolutionary because they are literally stepping out of their entire Earth History. They are literally going against everything that their history is telling them to do. They are making a different decision, that is to actively with awareness, create who they are, which requires being aware of who they are Now, so they can change it. That is not part of the vast majority's lives.

And I do recognize that children are more aware that adults, partly because they haven't been yet developed the Who They Are yet that will blind them as they are doomed to repeat the same thoughts, decisions, and beliefs. Lacking experience is actually more useful than having experience, the contrary to what adults believe. Because it is the lack of experience that brings forth candidness, clarity, genuineness, and so the truth! To be able to look at a situation without your mind's eye, meaning without biases, without preconceptions, without judgement, is to look at the situation as it really is, which is what children do, and so by definition you have done before! Remember, we were all children!

As an adult it is possible to look at situations for real, like a child. You have to however face your own beliefs, judgements, superstitions, fears, emotions and feelings about situations. And make the decision that they do not determine what you see, but that you choose to see the situation for yourself and conduct your own investigation into what the case is. If a child were to live in such a way, with such awareness, then they would never develop the problem that all adults face today. They would in fact completely avoid the entire problem and difficulty, and work directly in simply creating who they are, and so who they will be in this life. That is something so many adults have yet to start doing. So until the adults start doing this, it is unlikely the children will do it. So adults everywhere, please, the future generations are waiting on You to step up and take responsibility for what you have accepted and allowed.

Support is here, and adults have already started walking this process of self-discovery and self-change for many years now. They are experienced. See for yourself if this future is one you would like for yourself. See who they have become and see who they are becoming, as well as who they were. And take the course to learn how they are doing it.

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