The Self is the key. You are the key. If you want to make things better, focus on yourself. Do you have a relationship with yourself? Are you able to hold yourself and know yourself? Do you know what you are feeling? Do you know what you are thinking? Are you here with yourself? Do you Know yourself?

Self is the Key. You are the Key. You have the power. You are the power. You need to know the power. You need to know yourself. You need to know who you are right now in this moment in what you are thinking and feeling. And you need to start stopping whatever it is that is not best for you. You need to start stopping that which is harmful to Life.

Be the Self that is Free from all limitation, pain, abuse, destruction, and full of creation, ability, and potential. You start becoming through self-forgiveness.

Would you like to have a relationship with Your self?

Tuesday, December 22, 2015

The world is your responsibility

So what does this reveal?

This image reveals how debt is.

So we "made" money out of thin air. So what is money but a decision to have a certain good/service provided?

Look at it yourself.

You could basically create a utopian society based on the same principle. Simply give people orders/directions on what good/service to provide...
that is exactly what we have already anyway.

The difference is that if we with awareness create such a society EXACTLY how we want it to be, then we would all be better off. We would have better STUFF, better houses, better equipment, things, better food, better everything.

Only because the decisions that are made now on what good/services are provided, are not best for everyone, is it so.

So all that needs to change is the decision, which WE can do with awareness, meaning we decide what we would actually like the world to be.

I mean people are already doing that already, aren't they? So we might as well do it ourselves, right? I mean why not? This is our world isn't it?

So we can decide to erase debt. It can be a decision. We can decide to create a utopian society. It is simply a decision.

What do you want?

The world is here, and the world is your responsibility. What will you do?

Sunday, December 20, 2015

What does Movies, Stories, Friendships, Relationships have in common?

So what does Movies, stories, friendships, relationships have in common?

They all have the potential for you to learn something valuable useful. And they all cannot show you or teach you every lesson that you will learn. Each can only show you only so much, and it is often just one, two, or a few points at a time. Even the most wisest and accomplish person can only show you just a little of what they have lived. Partially this is because of physical restraints, and also because of what lesson you are ready for now. A person cannot hear or understand something they are not ready for.

A lesson is something that you must hear and see for yourself. You might pick up something that no one else saw before. That is because of who you are, and what you needed to see and hear.

In truth there is no great or perfect movie, story, friendship or relationship. Where it is something concrete, and like a fixed image. There is only what YOU, Yourself can be and become that will allow you to pick up and take as much as you can of what is good there is to learn and see from each person, movie, story around you. That is why two different people in the same situation can experience it so differently. That is because YOU are creating you experience.

So if you become a person that takes the best from everything that you will surely grow, flourish and become something that is wonderful. Such a person is trying to become the best they can be.

So to criticize a friendship, movie, relationship, friendship is pointless. Criticizing yourself for not taking the best out of everything is however, quite a wise thing to do. So critics as defined as someone who only points out the flaws... is not someone seeking to become the best they can be. Often they hold that they have the answer, and know what is best. When in fact they are not living it. This is a mind system, and is trap in the mind. Don't fall for this trap, where you feel good about yourself and important when you point out flaws. Instead be someone that supports, both you and everyone around you to become the best that you can be. Become your potential.

Use the Desteni I process courses to assist you in this journey. Desteniiprocess.com

Thursday, December 17, 2015

Message to those who gave up

So, each person has or had that spark within them, within their expression. Where what they gave to the world, to their immediate environment, contributed to it..... BUT, what happens? When one day they lost it... for some reason... they do not know. Within that you react in confusion, lostness, anger... fear, and you don't know what happened. It are those moments that define you. Because it was easy when you could just express you, but now it is difficult... the level of difficulty that you are willing to allow to decide when you give up... that is your self-definition. That is your self-defined limit. That is your self-limitation. Do you see that point?

So, the truth is, everyone has that spark of amazingness in who they are. That amazingness you have isn't really all the unique/special because everyone has got it within them. What is really amazing however, are those individuals that actually still live that, when things become challenging. It is not surprising to have that spark when your life is easy... that isn't so surprising or special... as you haven't been challenged.

You have to be willing to face the shit and say fuck it, I am going to find a way to express me again. And I will keep trying until I succeed. I will not stop or give up. I will succeed. So with that, you will eventually come to a realization and a lesson. About yourself, who you are, and what you have accepted and allowed about your self-definition as self-limitation. Its only you.... you know...


SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
give up..... or not...... your choice.... I suggest whatever you do... do it for what is best for YOU, and for everyone else too.

Thursday, December 10, 2015

Popularity, Likeability, loveability

Popularity, Likeability, loveability.

Now, something everyone faces is when you are faced with people or persons, and someone, perhaps even you, has a form of like or dislike with another person. A simple point, no? However, can one person's opinion, belief, or view point of a person ever completely represent who that person is in fact?

For some the answer may be difficult to say and face. The answer is no. However, how many times has each of us witnessed, or committed ourself to such a point of view? Plenty of times, no?

This isn't an easy point to work with, because you are dealing with emotions here. There can be anger, irritation, annoyance, even love or joy. The difficulty here is to be able to really see the person for who they are currently, without getting stuck in seeing one point, either positive or negative. Not only that, things can become even more complex when you are stuck within your own reaction towards a singular part of a person, thus even failing to really see and comprehend even that one point of the person that you are reacting to.

So what's the solution here?
The solution is to eventually through time, practice and dedication come to a point where you can see objectively all the different parts of a person, and including who they are in various levels, from the surface into their deep layers. This includes too their potential for change, and who they are in the core of their being.

How do you do this practically? I suggest to take the desteni I process course, as it walks you step by step into how to actually do that. There is an introductory DIP lite course, where you can try out the support system and course material without having to pay anything, which includes the invaluable live person support, called the buddy.

We all require help to walk our own mind, to understand it, investigate it, and see it for what it is. 

Monday, December 7, 2015

Expectations

Recently the word expectations has come to my attention, where in different moments, I was reacting towards expectations that I had towards what others expected of me. So these expectations were/are defining my living, within reactions.

I don't recall ever working with the words expectations, specifically, so that is something I would like to do here.

Expectations as a word is interesting. It refers to that which you perceive another has as a desire, and in this case, a desire for me to act, behave, or do. And what is interesting here in this case is that I am have expectations or beliefs about what another has as an expectation for me. So in my perception as a belief in my mind, they expect me to act or be a certain way. Within that I react when I do or don't follow the expectation. Now here is something interesting where within doing what I expect them to expect of me, I feel something positive. This is a reaction, even though it is positive. This is a cool point to look at, because this part is equally part of the entire expectation itself. Wherein I am changing how I act and do and live to meet the expectations.

Now, in the world out there, where you survive for money, it is quite emotionally challenging, where you can get easily lost within the survival. You can easily simply accept and allow the slightest reaction if you believe that it is guaranteeing your survival or helping you to survive. So in your mind you have beliefs about expectations that others have. Granted some of them MAY be right. But have you really tested them? Do you really KNOW? Or are you merely acting within a belief that you know. Again, this is quite challenging.

So in looking at my recent experiences in recent events. Expectations or beliefs that are wrong or misaligned are ... well... misaligned, so they are limiting you, and also probably limiting others. In other words, something needs to change, and the expectations must change. Because the entire point you relied on to inform you how to act and be was wrong. And that's okay because you probably didn't know. And that is how you learn and change. And next time, perhaps to be more proactive and aware of how to test the expectations. And in all honesty, you are going to come to a point where you just have to go with what you have, and just see what happens. That's OKAY. Just make sure that you have it clear within you, what expectations you are having and make sure that they are aligned with reality as much as possible. Meaning that you limit information that is incorrect as much as possible. And again, will you make mistakes, guaranteed. Just make sure you spend time adjusting, readjusting, and relooking. So you are constantly checking up on yourself and what you are creating.

THAT is the best you can do. And its proactive. And with awareness.

Its actually quite healthy to challenge expectations, which means testing them, until you get some physical real world feedback. Because what else would you do? Simply wait and never see?

So its not that expectations are bad, but that you are aligned with the real expectations that you are willing to follow, that support you within what is best for all. So it all depends on everything involved. There is no hard and fast rule.

Sunday, December 6, 2015

You don't always get what you want, sometimes you get something even better.

In the journey of doing what is best for all, because it here in this world and how things work, when you try to create something, it may not work. It may not work 100%, like at all not work. But that's okay. Because its not about product that you want. No. Its about what is feasible now, and what the environment right now allows for. And how do you find this information out about feasibility and what the environment allows? By proposing something, doing something, and that thing doesn't work. That is really the only way to know. So that is an example of not getting what you want, but instead getting something better. In this case that is useful information about what doesn't work. And as you adjust and change accordingly, you don't end up getting what you initially wanted, but instead you get whatever it may be. Is it better? I can't honestly say. But it certainly is possible that it is soooo good, and great. You won't know until you create it. In this world where nothing is guaranteed. Yet creation occurs constantly.

So its not about getting what you want on the surface level, but what you want on a deeper level. That thing you want that is BEHIND that which you want to create. That thing behind is a principle, something general that is not limited to one output, event or manifestation, but can take many forms. That is what is real, and that is how you can be satisfied with many different outcome, because for you they are all the same. They are just different version of what you really want, yet the same.

This is how you can say and do things that you don't want, but just to see whether it can lead to what you really want. And within that you see in the physical in real time whether it indeed worked. It's not about what you want or don't want on the surface level, it never will be. But about what you do really want. That is why you get out of bed every morning. That is your point of creation in this world. And on the way, yes you will receive feedback that what you created wasn't part of what your really wanted, and that is a good thing. Honest mistakes are a good thing, as you were still following what you really wanted. The lies is what you have to watch out for the most. The lies about reality, about you, about any point, is what disturbs your journey of creating the point. Take care to separate the lies from reality. The truth is clear, a lie is fuzzy.

And all fears are lies. So when you walk your journey a priority is, remove all lies, and keep them away from you. Don't believe or have faith in anything. Either know it or don't.

So Know or Know not, there is no Believe.

Sunday, November 29, 2015

Honesty and Idealism

The Ideal world. What does it mean to be an idealist in this world? To be an idealist, according to me, is to have the ideal set within you. Where your ideal is your honest ideal. It is not the ideal that conflicts with who you are on a deep level of self, really want. And on that level you want what is best for everyone. This ideal is in fact the same for everyone in principle. There are slight variations in wording and phrasing, but the essence of it is the same message.

What is my ideal world/situation. Ideally everyone is taken care of, and everyone has the willingness and the motivation to care for their individual self and that of others. That the product of everyone being cared for is done through everyone caring for their individual self and others. Now, the question is how do we make sure a world possible? You obviously need to start with yourself, and those who are already willing to become such a person. That you assist and support them, and you assist and support yourself to become such a person, where you are willing to put forth what is best for you, and what is best for another, over other points which are not what is best. This will require understanding how and why you became the way that you are now, who doesn't do what is best for you and others. This is commonsense.

So what is interesting is that when you are honest about the ideal life, living, that you naturally gravitate towards making the possibility real, or at least I do. So that is why I am an idealist, where I haven't fully given up on the ideal world. Yet, I do sometimes forget the ideal. That is why I am also not an idealist fully, and why others in the world are not idealist.

Idealism has a negative meaning in the world, as someone who has dreams that are too lofty and impossible to create. This is the meaning placed/given by those who have given up, either partly or fully on making this world BETTER. So here I am showing you the truth of the matter. If you hold what you ideally would like to create this world to become, then you are simply go after the best possible version of the world. That is what the word Ideal is meant to represent and mean. What it is you honestly would like to create. So be HONEST.

Now in all honesty, the point that is often misrepresented in the ideal, is actually what happens often, meaning that idealism is not taken into actual living and application. Meaning that to manifest your ideal world, you are going to need to start somewhere, and you are going to have to dedicate much of your life to such a goal, and you are going to need to work with others, because the world is big and there is much that needs to be done. So ground yourself, ground your ideal, and ask specific questions like how am I going to actually make this happen?

Also, some people abuse the word ideal, by speaking about how they would like to be wealthy and healthy, while forgetting about everyone else on the planet, besides a few loved ones. That is an abuse and such a reality isn't possible, and such words are spoken in dishonesty, as that is not what you honestly want. You cannot honestly want others to suffer while you rejoice in wealth and happiness, that is not possible. So the KEY here is HONESTY.

So create the ideal world here for YOU and for EVERYONE. Don't give up, be a practical idealist. Be HONEST.
I - Deal

Wednesday, November 18, 2015

Life will find a way...

The world is a tough place. But there is a promise that things can get better... if we make it so. Realistically, most people out there won't help in some endeavor that will actually change how life is. Most people are profiting from how life is not, either financially, emotionally or personally. But there is a promise that things can change, and that is given by a few people. These few are willing to help, and willing to learn and become the change that is needed.

So things aren't so bad when you look at it. At least you got a chance. And we each have that chance. I mean you are alive, right? You have a chance. Its better to have it than not.

Life will find a way, because WE will find a way.

Saturday, November 14, 2015

Analyzing fear reactions to Paris Attack

So this blog post is not about the violence that occurred in Paris. Instead it is about our reactions to it.

So the way I see it, the Paris attack created a mini war situation. Meaning that the explosions and shootings is what happens in war.

So one question is why are we afraid when we hear what happened? Because, for me, when I look at people living in war situations, how come we don't feel the same fear when we hear of 200 people dead in Syria, or Afghanistan, Iraq, etc... Why don't we experience the same fear? The answer is simple, because it occurred in Europe, in a first world country and city. Because the fear you feel is a fear about your own safety. So what you feel now is about compassion or caring about others, but is a point of self-interest and survival. Because if you did in fact feel compassion for others in war situations, then we would feel the same way for the wars that are going on now in Africa, and the Middle East, and elsewhere in the world.

A second reason why we don't react to other places is because the way that other deaths, shootings and bombings are reported. So typically other bombings and shootings outside the first world countries are not reported and when they are they are not reported with such detail and specificity, and you don't have world leaders pledging support for those victims. So this shows how we are also manipulated by people sounding sad, distressed and saying all the gruesome details about what has happened. So if you can be manipulated and scared by a horror movie, you can bet that you can be manipulated by how people speak, act and what they say on the news.

So a fundamental question here is, is the lives of the people in paris more or less than any other life on earth? Because that is how we are acting. And really, as I pointed out, we are not reacting to the loss of life, but our own self-interest to keep ourselves safe. So in essence we are holding our individual life as more/greater than anyone else's.

So this blog post is not about saying to not take care of yourself and protect yourself in an emergency, because in reality there is no immediate threat to your life. But in the mind, the threats is perceived through the images and sounds perceived and that is taken into thought, memories, and so personalities, and all of this is happening on deeper levels of awareness that most people don't have access to. So it is important to understand how you work so you are able to be effective in dealing with your real world situations, and create the reality that is best for all. 

Tuesday, November 3, 2015

What is purpose, money?

Money
Money
Money is something difficult/challenging to work with. It is one of those top things that possess people in general. Another one of those things is romances/sex.

If you observe people, you can see how people are morphed and changed when making money. That how they become and change with making money carries into their personality, in such a way that it is always present in their life. It might involve becoming hard, tough, harsh. It may involve becoming stressed, nervous, worried, anxious. And it will eventually manifest in their bodies, in the coloration of their eyes, their skin, in their facial complexion. It will change how they walk, talk, move, and lack of sleep. It can possess your thoughts, your imaginations, desires, and memories. You can self-reflect to see how true this is for you.

Money is one of those challenges in life that must be faced and overcome. Facing and overcoming it doesn't necessarily mean becoming rich/wealthy. No. It means being able to stand in front of money, whatever the situation may be with money, and standing stable, calm, sure, with understanding/awareness. That means money doesn't affect or change who you are. And this is the end goal, being able to work with money and use it as a tool for what is best for all.

In observing myself, money has come to define everything I do. This means that even when I am not making money, my experience of myself is still defined in relation to money. And that my relationship with money extends into my education, where grades were the money I worked for. And money has come to define work, as well as self-value, self-worth and self-definition. Where if I am doing something and not making money, I automatically resist that, and feel that I am lacking value. And so too, when I am presented with an opportunity to make money, I jump into that quickly. The fact that it is so widespread in my daily life, goes to show how powerful and developed this money system within me has become, with its history extending into my schooling years.

What is interesting is that when I see who I am in relation to a work/job if I didn't earn any money, is that I become more creative, expressive and aware. This means that this money system within me actually impedes me from producing the greatest creation possible. And ironically, even potentially making money. Not only that, because the money system uses emotions/feelings to fuel it, it also leads to a deterioration of my body and so my health. Thus the money you make while living as the money system is spent later on for your body/health anyway. So living this way actually makes no sense from all sides, even the money side.

So there are various emotions and feelings that are within the money system. These include feeling happy, joyous, content, complete, fulfilled, at peace, relax, fine, okay, resting, fun, excitement...
They also include having emotions of anger, stress, annoyance, jealously, resistance, hate, giving up, hopeless, powerless, resentment, irritation, overwhelming, sadness, etc...

You also may have definitions that you are only worthy if you make money, that making money is the only important thing, that you have to drop everything else and find ways to make money, that your life will end without money. Sometimes too, there will be an illusion where you actually believe this to be true even though you have people in your life that would support you and help you, and that there are other ways to live, but you don't see them. Because when you practically look at and assess your life you will see another way, and that by taking care of other points which don't earn you any money, you are actually bettering your life, and ensuring your future. There are many things that are done daily that don't earn money, yet they support you. This includes self-introspection/self-support, eating food good for you, taking care of your body through cleaning, doing some stretches/exercise, helping out your friends/families.

Money is currently set like a trap, where you become blind to what actually supports your living. This means the people in your life, the people you interact with, the environment you interact with, the physical earth, and everything that is here in it. There is so much on this earth that is done, without earning money. From how trees recycle carbon dioxide into oxygen for example, or how they grow and give their bodies to be used for food. And also parents, who many times, not always, support their children to grow.

Money is not something to live for. When you find some purpose/reason for existing, then you will push what it takes to make it happen. This is something self-honest, and is partly a decision but also a recognition of what is already here. Money can be used to support a purpose/reason, but it can never be the purpose/reason itself. We are currently as humanity, living a self-definition that money is our self-value and self-worth, that it is something to live for. We as humanity have forgotten that Life is found here outside of money, and that money is only one part of a million different parts of existence. We have gotten lost inside of our own experience when it comes to money. And this is why most of us are still trapped with money because we haven't recognized the Life that is already here.

So stop your experiences with money, and create/recognize who you are and who you are meant to be.


I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define my self-worth, self-value, and self-definition in relation to money, no matter the amount I have.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define my entire life, everything I do and don't do daily, in relation to money, where I feel good when earning money, and I feel bad when I am not earning money.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define doing work as good, and doing work for money as good, and to define having a job, and working outside the house as good.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to not live for my purpose/reason for living, which is Life, and the creation of something that assists and support the development of Life on this planet.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to not see/realize/understand that there are things you can't buy with money, and they are essential to Life, including friends, family, people you can depend on, the environment/nature and the processes they undergo and gifts they provide, and yourself, your passion, your self-creation, and self-development. Money can only support those things, but it can't buy them. They are only received through your effort, recognition, commitment, honor, regard, and respect for those things, and for yourself.

When and as I see myself changing my experience of myself when it comes to money, my daily living and my work/job - I stop and I breathe - I realize that I do need money, but that it doesn't mean that I must only work a job, have a business or ask for help, because I may see new ways and different ways to ensure I have my basic necessities taken care - I realize that money doesn't fill self-worth, self-value or self-definition, that it merely a practical tool, like a hammer, which I wouldn't define myself according to a tool like a hammer - I realize that to change the world, we are going to need more than just money, that we need people who know how to use money responsibly, that are able to push for the change need through their words and actions, and are the examples we look up too, where who they are as a person comes first always before money - I realize that there will be those who we are going to support with money as they are the front runners and the faces of the change that is needed - I realize that my self-development is equally as important as making money - I realize that I don't need a system to change me to become someone who can make money. I can already make money, and I don't need a system to tell me how - I realize that defining myself according to money has been one of the worse mistakes I have ever made - I realize money doesn't buy freedom, that freedom is something that is already here and something that must be seen/recognize as a part of who you are.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to be afraid of one day waking up and not having any money.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear spending time on things which don't earn me money, because I fear one day not having any money, so I think I must spend all my time making money to prevent that from happening.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to find fear valid, if I believe that it will prevent bad things from happening to me.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe fear is a tool I should use to motivate me.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing emotion and feelings to motivate me to make money.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to use emotion and feelings to motivate me.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to not see, recognize and understand the value of myself as Life being the point of motivation, where I move, and create what is best for everyone.

Thus I commit myself to use money as one tool among many tools, recognizing that it is separate from me and not essential to Life, but is serving a large part of survival currently, which means it must be realigned to make sure it no longer has an effect/determination on practical decisions.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to feel angry and irritated with money, because I believe I have no power and control or say in whether I make money, because I must to survive.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe that making money is the only way to live.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to blame everyone in the money system, because things are currently in a situation where most people are stressed and tied to money, and I believe that they believe that things can't change.

So what I am seeing is that there are many different ways to bring about the change that is needed. Money will be a part, but I don't see it as the only ingredient. Another part is people, because without the people to make the change happen and do the effort, money is useless. And too, it is in fact people that do all the labor that you buy with money. So in the end/first there is people, and money is just a way to force someone to work/do something for you because they need to provide for themselves. However, if you make a friend, then they would be willing to do the work that needs to be done. Because would you have a better result from someone that does the work because they want to, or because they have to in order to survive? Who would you trust? I mean, if you look at examples in the world, we have many people that do the bare minimum, but when you pay for a service, do you really want the bare minimum or the best? That is commonsense.

So when it comes to making money/ a living, if you step on everyone around you to get there, then you will simply have a lot of money, but no one there that is willing to support you. There will be those that support you for the money, but that only goes so far. You can't buy relationships, you can't buy trust, integrity, honesty, etc... Money is limited to a very specific set of outcomes. But there is so much more to life that is available to live, that can't be bought through money, they must be lived yourself. So use your money to invest in the outcome that is best for everyone. That decision is priceless.

So what I am seeing now is that this world system is build on people, not money. That to change this system we need to unite a large number of people, not to collect a large amount of money. However, by uniting people, you are bringing their money and skills to the table. Thus it seems very important to find a way or ways to bring people together. 

What the world needs is negotiators/diplomats, not warriors. We have had enough war, and what we need is understanding, communication, and coming together on the common ground we stand upon.

Monday, November 2, 2015

Are you continuously creating who you are?

Understanding your emotions and feelings is a tricky thing. It requires time to investigate them, to understand why you are feeling a certain way, to see whether it is something you really want to feel, or to see whether it actually makes any sense to feel that way. But if you spend the time to understand them, you gain the power and ability to change them into something better that is an expression of who you are.

Sometimes you will find that it doesn't make any sense to feel a certain way. Like with feeling irritated with having to wait for something/someone. Because you self-honestly know that feeling irritated while waiting doesn't make any sense, even though you may have excuses and justifications for it.

And when you do change how you feel, and stop certain emotions/feelings, your life can become better, where you actually gain back the power to create your life exactly how you want it, and become the exact person that is the best version of yourself possible. And this is something you self-honestly know and create.

I understand it may seem scary to decide to stop feeling a certain way. But consider the alternative where you continuously feel a certain emotion, such as anger, irritation, hate, sadness, without end, without stopping, forever. So to me, it seems much better to actually be the one that decides my fate. So are you someone that has already been created? Or are you continuously creating who you are?

Sunday, November 1, 2015

To care is scary

To care is scary.....

it is scary because you have to give up freedom. To care means to be a servant. Imagine or remember caring for something/someone. You had to support them. That is not freedom, or free to choose or do what you want to do. That is being there for them, to support them, care for them.

If you want to be free in every moment, then you can never care for someone, or have them ever trust you. Because to care for someone and to gain someone's trust means that you are committed to them. Being committed to them, means that you are not free to break that commitment.

Freedom then is overrated because obviously, breaking commitments/promises, is not something desirable for you or for those around you. You want to be surrounded by people you can trust, that are dependable. You want to be a trustworthy person.

For some reason, fear exists when it comes to losing freedom. Even if that is the freedom to abuse and to break promises/commitments. Freedom then is something not so desire-able. Do you desire people around you that are free? or people that are committed to protecting, serving, preserving, enhancing, assisting and supporting Life everywhere? Who do YOU want to be?

Thursday, October 29, 2015

Meeting someone where they are at

So in life, you will meet all sorts of people. Some will be rare individuals that find the nugget of truth within everything that is shared/spoken. Others will be the more common person that tends to hold onto what is their normal beliefs. The question to ask in any moment is who am I in this moment? Because you have the choice to meet someone, no matter who they are, according to where they are at, and so not according to you, or to your likes, preferences etc... So you do put them first.

What does this mean practically in reality? That you speak to them on their level, within their understanding and their context of life. You do that, and you don't try speaking to them from your level or your level of understanding and the context of your life. People who have only lived a similar life to yours will be able to hear you if you speak only from your context. Thus to expand your influence and the potential audience that can listen and understand you, you must include their lives within your words and actions. This means not only in conversations, but in also what you do. This means adjusting and changing your habits, patterns and actions so that it includes the level of understanding that another person has. For example, they may be someone who dislikes something very much, and even though to you it is perfectly acceptable and you see their dislike being a limitation on their part, that you take into consideration that they won't change, and in a sense, can't change because of who they are and their life circumstance, or for other reasons. So in such situations you change/adjust for them, for their support. Because you do see clearly that they become affected by their strong dislike and your unwillingness to change for them. So yes, you are doing something that they won't do. And that would be because of a responsibility you have because you can and are willing to change, and become that which is best for them and you. 

One example that may be particularly challenging is when you have in the past shown/expressed how what another person is doing is something limiting, and something that if they were to change would better them. However, when you had expressed/shown this, they said with confidence that they didn't need to change, and that they liked how they were. So even in this situations where a person doesn't wish to change, it may be challenging for you to change yourself to support them. In such situations I remind myself that even though they may be expressing themselves and claiming that they have full awareness/understanding regarding what they are doing, that they are not really aware of it, because of what they are missing, which is what you are seeing. So in changing yourself to support them where they are at, you are assisting something that doesn't have the full picture/understanding that you have. And you have to make sure that you don't stand within a position of ego in relation to them, and that you are supporting them. This is something that does come up. And more importantly if you accept and allow the ego as a belief that you are better than them, and that you are "right," they will see that within you and resist you, because ego isn't something right.

So you can only ever have the honor and duty to assist/support another. Its your responsibility to do so, because you CAN, and so you must assist/support, including when you must change how you are to adjust to where they are at.

Saturday, October 24, 2015

Human Potential 405

We are each of us born with great potential. What is this potential? It is the power and ability to become something. You have the power to create this world the world how you want it, but there is a catch, so can everyone else. So it is a catch 22. You have power, but so does everyone else. That is why the only answer that can exist and work for everyone is to do what is best for everyone. We can all agree there. Our potential is already here at our finger tips. We just require the will to move it, and make it so. The ability to learn, do, see, remember, is part of your very self and body. You can learn and do anything. However it takes time. And it takes luck. Some of us unfortunately don't have a say or power to express as much as others, due to the environment. Yet even within that you have the power to decide how you are, and thus who you are. Even in the worst slavery, you have that power. And this will surely create ripple effects in the people around you. The greatest power is and always will be the Life Force within us all. Everything else that is considered power is just a derivative of that. Thus by our acceptance and allowance all the evils and pain/suffering exists as they do. Because we have the power to stop them. The sooner we realize the power we each have, the sooner we can apply it and support one another, and so the sooner we will fix the mess we have created. We are in this together. No matter what happens, whether we succeed or fail, it will be together.

So live up to your potential. Don't settle for anything less. Who you are, matters.

Wednesday, October 21, 2015

I know

I know! I know. I knowwwww!!!!!! I know, I know, I know. Stop telling me, I know!!!!!!!

I don't know what I am doing. I don't know what I am going to do. I don't know!  

Have you ever felt this way? I have. I felt stressed, annoyed irritated, shameful, confused, lost, worried, afraid and despair.

Why does this happen?

The best thing to do is to look at a memory to figure out this question. So I remember when I was learning to drive and my father was teaching me. He was telling me something I already knew, so I told him I know, I know! I felt annoyed irritated and angry. I didn't like him telling me something I already knew because I FELT that he thought I didn't know that, and I FELT stupid in his eyes, even though in reality that is not the case. So I let what I felt as a reaction get the better of me in that moment, where I trusted this insecurity and self-judgement that rose within me. I know that this is connected to time in the classroom where I judged those who knew answers to question as being better/smart, and those who didn't know answers as dumb. So this ties into the I don't know thinking. Because when I don't know I FEEL inferior, and lacking worth. And a moment where I think that is when I faced a challenging moment where I was exploring something new, that I didn't know what the outcome would be like. So I felt insecurity in myself, and in what I am doing, within not knowing what was going to happen. The truth is that yes I didn't know what was going to happen, but that is part of exploring something new. You are not going to know what is going to happen. So in both cases, what I felt initially as a reaction mislead me and was not best for me. 

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to feel inferior when it pertains to what knowledge I do or do not have on a subject, and so instead have my self-value and self-worth not tied AT ALL to what knowledge I do or do not have, but instead tied to me as who I am as my principles, values, and daily life decisions and directions I make.

Sunday, October 18, 2015

Fear

With Halloween approaching near, I figure it would be good to address fearful things, such as scary movies. I remember when I was young, I had a babysitter that watched a scary movie on TV. I was very scared, and had nightmares about that movie for many years. It was only when I was 18 did I really confront these fears, understand them and dispel them. Now I can enjoy fear in a playful way, such as with friends for example.

For most parents, it seems better to prevent your child from seeing a scary movie until they are ready. One question that seems unclear is, when are they ready? Taking my own life as an example, no adult sat down with me to explain what fear is, what movies were, how movies were fabricated and fake, and how to also calm yourself down at will. It was only when I was 18 years old that I made the conscious decision to understand fear, and to be able to direct how I feel in a moment. However, I saw myself as perfectly capable of understanding and investigating this since I had the ability to self-reflect, and communicate myself with others. This is something that many children develop already around 4 or 5 years old. The biggest obstacle here is language.

So ideally children would be exposed to fear early on, and that parents support them and explain to them what is happening, and what fear is. Because it is a guarantee that everyone on this planet will be exposed to fear. Fear is unavoidable. Trying to avoid and prevent someone from ever seeing a scary movie or tv show, or coming face to face with a real scary situation, is not possible. It will happen. So the best thing really is to prepare yourself for fear, and understand the fear that YOU are feeling. And it is not that someone or something else is to blame for causing fear, no. Instead fear is a part of a person, that must be understood and directed.

Also, consider that fear is quite ubiquitous. It is found within fear of losing people, or fear of failure, or fear of what others may think of you. So learning to stop your own fear, and seeing it for what it is, is an essential life skill. That is something every person must learn, and in fact many don't learn.

So there's no point in fearing fear, or fearing that your child is exposed to fear. The best thing is to prepare yourself by understanding your own fear and overcoming it, so that you can support others, such as your child to understand their own fear and subsequently overcome it.

Tuesday, October 13, 2015

I want to see the world change. Do you?

I want to see the world change. I want to see everyone standing up, coming together, and change how things work. I want to see people being selfless by doing the work, making the sacrifice/commitment to the work and positions within a society that does what is best for everyone. I want to see the young people standing up, I want to see the old generations standing up. I want to see everyone from every background and culture uniting for this one purpose; our common ground, which is the land we stand upon. That we fix the money system, that we cover all the holes that leak. That no more do people fall through the cracks into poverty into making decisions that are bad for them that go against their real talents and life purpose. No one should have to work to make money to survive.  Survival is outdated. We haven't had to survive for centuries! We have been living in an age of abundance for so long. At this point survival is artificial, its not real. But we have been accepting and allowing it to be real to be the reality that we live in. It has to stop. Not stopping it isn't an option. We destroy ourselves, our future, and any hope if we allow any of us to live within survival and poverty. What does that say about who we are as people? If you have any religion, code of honor or ethics, what would your God say, or who would you be under your code of honor/ethics? Do you think anyone could look at who we are and say that they are proud that we are doing the right thing? No, they would have to be delusional, or plain evil. Poverty/survival, being preventable, yet it still exists? That is evil. I couldn't think up a more selfish, self-centered, twisted, corrupted tale. That is our legacy and that is the lesson we are teaching our children unless we change it! And I know that is not how I want to go out. I would die fighting for a better world. And if that means going into politics, speaking out, talking to people, reaching out, constantly day in and day out, then that is what I will do. Because I want to see the world change. Do you?

Saturday, October 10, 2015

Day 401 Corruption is...

Corruption is an action that is not best for all, with intent. Corruption then is found everywhere. How do you stop/prevent corruption? By not accepting and allowing it. You must be aware, watch, restrict, handle all the aspects of the situation, except that which is outside of your power.

When it comes to corruption with money, you must make sure to hold people accountable/responsible. You must only accept and allow actions/points that are best for all. If someone betrays your trust, then you must take the appropriate steps for someone who you don't trust. They lose access to things that require responsibility.

All of this is commonsense.

Friday, October 9, 2015

Day 400 - Series: Looking Back to the past Part 1

I figure it would be cool to check out old posts and review/expand them.

From April 14 2012,
http://yoganjourneytolife.blogspot.com/2012/04/1st-day-april-14th.html

"I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to generate emotions while watching the tv show supernatural. I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to generate emotions and feelings while watching fringe. I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to generate emotions while playing the online game dead frontier. I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to generate energy as emotions and feelings when I compete with other players and use them for my own purposes, involving deception. I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to think, I have just been playing all day, I haven’t done anything. I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from what I am doing on a Saturday. I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to generate emotion of stress and anxiety when I think, I have just been playing all day, I haven’t done anything. I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to generate energy as emotions and feelings when a girl likes me at a party. I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to generate emotion as anxiety and stress when I think of playing dead frontier. I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to think of playing dead frontier.  
Self-correction: be here whether im watching a show, playing a game, or at a party and to stop any emotions, feelings, and thoughts that arise. I am not separate from what i participate in. What i participate in, i am one and equal to. So i stop separation and from there direct what is best for all."


This post is pretty cool. I was taking the stance that the problem is not what you do, but who you are WITHIN what you do. So that means I must forgive all of these thoughts, emotions and feelings that were swirling within me while participating in these leisure activities. What is interesting is that your mind swirling point, prevents you from enjoying yourself. I remember that at this time, I was in college, and I would spend most of my time studying. So I was in studying-survival mode, where when I wasn't studying I would feel guilty and be thinking about how I should by studying. So it really was a mind pattern/possession/obsession that didn't allow me to relax, let go, and simply rest. The correction then speak to that point. That I must bring myself back here into my body, be one with it here, in this moment, and so actually direct myself, rather than having these thoughts and mental baggage going on in the background. One dimension I didn't expose was how it related so much to my studies, because I was in a way dependent on these emotions and thoughts to motivate and push me to study, which is something I relied on similar elementary school. So it was a habit-formed dependency, which I have mostly walked out of, thank goodness. It really was such a stress.

Tuesday, October 6, 2015

Allocation/Distribution of Money 339

The Allocation or Distribution of Money is a hot topic.

When we talk about some group of people deciding how the money of a country is spent. Does that seem strange to you? Like, for example, let's say that I say to you, let us all get together, get organized and become the leaders that decide how money is spent in this country. Would that seem strange to you?

Well, believe it or not, in every single country, and society, and within every level of government and business, someone or some group of people are deciding how ALL of the money is spent. Essentially every major decision is influenced by the funding. Now, why would it seem so crazy that citizens of a country or government come together to decide how money is spent, distributed or allocated? Is that so far fetched? Yet it happens daily, that someone who is a citizen, and also a politician is voting on how money is spent. They vote yes on wars, which is funded.

So in reality, the sessions in congress, or your government that matter most are those days where they vote on the funds, and how money is spent. That is the most important days. Yet how often do you hear about that? None at all. This isn't publicized or emphasized whatsoever. Yet money is what holds all the power. Without money, every war would end in one day. War takes money. So the same with every other major decision and movement.

So is it really that crazy to decide, ok we are going to get organize and decide that politicians will no longer vote on how funds are allocated, and instead we the citizens will vote on approving any requests for funds. We will vote on cutting on any programs. Because we value the money that is ours, the citizens. It is our money afterall, so we should decide where our pooled money goes to. We will then vote and approve and disapprove measures.

This would be a simplistic solution to the major problems we face today, from GMO, to Vaccinations, Public Education, University tuitions, Wars, Healthcare, Poverty and Crime.

Let us take the power back into our own hands.

Sunday, October 4, 2015

Why Sudbury? 338

Right now, I am attempting to secure a position at a sudbury school, and to work there long term. Why?

So there are many reasons why. The work doesn't pay very much, so it isn't for the money. The first reason is that who I am as a person fits well in this school. So how I naturally am as a person. Open, honest, considerate, listening to others, being playful, making jokes, helping others, but also knowing when to be stern, especially when someone is doing something that is harmful/wrong, but also patient, mostly, though I am not perfect. Also working at a subdury school is unique in that my principles of equality among people, is applied in practice by having each student of each age, being equal under the rules and with the power to change those rules as anyone else, including me. I also have a high regard for the potential awareness and intelligence children can possess when they are respected, regarded, and given the ability to question, learn and understand through the environment. Sadly some children in the world are forced by their environment so that they don't learn, and don't have self-value, and so value for life.

Another reason, is that I see that the potential for these children at this sudbury school as having the greatest potential as being true leaders and examples of what it means to strive for your highest potential as human. This is based on my life experience, where I was suppressed through having to spend so much time in school work, that mostly was busy work. I did learn a few things in school, but there was so much time wasted in busy work, that it was inefficient. I also wasn't able to focus on my greatest flaws as I was too concerned with my survival of school. So where the students are now is where I was when I was 18 years old and in college, where I had the time to explore a bit more about who I am. Though no situation is perfect or ideal in this world. I still do see them as having a greater chance, as well as desire to learn what this world is and who they are in relation to it, which will become their decision ultimately, being who they are.

Another reason, is that I see that this school model could realistically be introduced to public schools in some form, like a hybrid or mix. The idea is that the more time children have to reflect, to investigate, and to do what they want to, the better. So whatever more time they can get, the better it is. As for me, I would push for the greatest deal possible for them. So something like a 50% reduction in total school work would have a sizable impact.  So working at this school, I see will also prepare me to see how such a next step could be possible. I am using my intuition here for such a future outcome. That would involve some political movement or movement of the people to push for such a change. Schools in united states are more regulated by the state than the country, so I see it as more possible to vote in such a change, also since taxes go directly into the schools.

Also, since I am acting with my intuition here, I see that there could be new doors that will open up here that I can't predict or know. Both on a personal level and in the greater future of humanity.

Also, on a very deep level of who I am, taking the role that I do at this school, I am fulfilling a part of who I am as a guide/support for children, within equality. Meaning who I am is who they are, and who they are is who I am. So this means respect, regard and consideration for the life that is within us all.

Friday, September 25, 2015

What would you do if you had a Living Income?

The Living Income is term used by the Equal Life Foundation.
To give a very simple definition and use for the word, consider this: Living Income is money granted to you for the purpose of fulfilling you requirement of certain things needed to Live.
So here, pretend that your basic needs are met. That means that your rent/mortgage is covered. Your bills for food, electricity, water, heating, transportation are covered. That you could basically sit all day at home and do nothing, and you could live given that you don't kill yourself, and remember to feed yourself (mom's with young adult sons can attest to the dangers of forgetting to eat -joke). Now the question here is what would you do?

So for me, in short number of words, I would continue with pushing for human rights, dignity, respect and education. I would support other people in living their lives and reaching their utmost potential. That is what I do today. The difference is that I wouldn't have any concern or thought placed to where I need to make more money so that I can continue eating, and paying for a place to stay. I won't have a fear, or thought towards such a possibility. I could be more committed to my goals.

So the question is, what would you do?

So if you are a mother or father with young children, perhaps you will spend more time with them, rather than going to work. You might still go to work because you sincerely enjoy it, or you see it as being valuable to the world in how it contributes to society. But for sure, you would set aside time with your children.

If you are an activist who supports changing government policies toward Global Warming, Factory Farming, or War/Military, you would spend more time to these causes that you are so committed to.

If you are an average bloke, who has no passion or interest in the world, you could explore what your passion is, instead of working at a job where you only work for the money.

If you always had a crazy idea for an invention, business venture, or political movement, you could actually explore that and commit to making that a reality.

In essence, we would have an entire society of people who are overall more committed to the activities they partake in daily, and are more interested in their lives and the world are around them. We would have greater connections with each other, our communities, neighbors, friends, families, and as Humanity. We would understand compassion on a deeper more practical level, where it is manifested as the Living Income itself. What more perfect example of compassion would you need to inspire such a principle in the new generation of youths?

Perhaps the question shouldn't be, what you would do with a Living Income, but instead it is who you will Be.

You laugh at Yourself 336

For quite some time I have reacted to various popular tv shows and movies. These include the simpsons, Family guy, and such movies as Ted, or A Million ways to die in the west. Now, having reflected on what I am reacting to and how I am reacting to, I can see now what is actually happening. We as humanity are laughing at characters that are psychologically deranged, crazy, or have some serious mental illness or faults. These individuals lack commonsense, principles, and are often driven purely by base reaction, and desire for self-pleasure and self-interest. They are narrow-minded, limited, and completely egotistical, and conform to arbitrary rules and authority as if lacking the ability to see and analyze the world around them for what it is. These are characters that are often driven by sex, within self-interest and disregard for the one you are having sex with. They often are self-loathing, self-debilitating, self-destructive, selfish, etc... They lack all care and regard for the value of Life, in them and in others. Within that they mask their selfishness, within having regard and care for a few individuals, which can be called family, friendships or loved ones. However, even these individuals they abuse constantly and consistently, and only rarely espouse the supposed value of friends, family, and love, when it conforms to their self-interest.

Now I have one question for you Humanity. How could we have accepted and allowed such "comedy" as entertainment to exist for so long without ever being questioned? The base answer seems to be that you have enjoyed it humanity, because these comedies reflect what is in fact with YOU. That is the self-interest, ego, disregard for life, responsibility, care and what it would actually mean to love. There is no love present in these comedies. But just a perverted feeling Love that lacks care, responsibility, and respect for ALL Life.

Would you laugh at a psychologically deranged individual that walks the street killing people and laughing about it? No, then why is that considered comedy? Would you laugh at someone who has sexs with many different people, treating them like dead meat? No you wouldn't. Would you laugh at someone that curses every few seconds and threatens you? No you wouldn't.

The only justification or excuse you can have for calling these acts as comedy, is that you are laughing AT the stupidity of these people. This is also another sad trick revealing your ego state. Because would you laugh at someone who is mentally ill? Disabled? Retarded? or Deranged/Crazy? Would you laugh at someone who lacks all care and regard for Life, and so can be called evil?  This itself seems quite crazy. And the base cheap excuse here is that you are Laughing at someone. So since when has it been acceptable to laugh at someone and enjoy someone else's misery? Would you like it if people called you names, made fun of you, and laughed at you? So please....

So what we find "comical" reveals to us our true faces. Laughing has become perverted, twisted, into a game of egos, self-loathing, and self-destruction. Yet it is widespread, commonplace, within society, and found in daily life. Be careful what you laugh at. You only laugh at yourself.




Thursday, September 24, 2015

It doesn't matter what other people think of you 335

What only matters is what you are thinking about yourself.
If you are having thoughts about yourself, that is affecting you directly. Your thoughts is what you think when you think about what other people think of you.
desteniiprocess.com

Saturday, September 19, 2015

Whether to risk your life for someone 334



Where and When to risk your life for someone.

So the perspective I am about to give, is based within the point of measuring each person by whether they stand within principles and values that considers everyone/Life. Because such people would have greater value than someone who stands within disregarding everyone. And so, in essence, people who have greater value through who they are, should be safe guarded and protected above all others. And so when you see someone in trouble where you have to risk your life, you have to assess your own value and that person's value, along with any and all relevant practical considerations, and side effects. One example is children, since they are still in the process of developing themselves and are not as set in stone as adults in their ways. Also, to consider whether they are someone that is integral in some project or endeavour which grants them value. So all of this you would have to consider, and ideally be aware of BEFORE the life-threatening, risky event occurs. So this means at least, assessing your value of your life. Now, this is obviously a difficult subject to consider, because we have morals attached here, especially to being the one that "let's other people die to save your life." We judge that as cowardice. Now of course, this perception is skewed, because you can consider daily acceptances where we daily let other people die.

So daily there are wars occurring, and their are economic disasters, where people die of starvation even. You could say we let those people die. And so too, when we eat food, we are taking the life of a plant or animal. So would we judge this as cowardice? Many of us actually do, which leads to activism, and vegans/vegetarians. But, what is missed here is what is practical and what is best for everyone, including yourself. Because we often grow up in a culture that worships the self-sacrificing hero, we often are quick to judge that to be what is good and what should be done, without actually understanding how we came to accept that as out thought and our cherished belief. You will probably find that you merely adopted that belief within a feeling or emotion tied to some memory where someone shared their belief with you. It is highly unlikely that you will find that you had made a decision, that measured the benefits and drawbacks, that had consider the context, and the various individuals, and whether you considered who those individuals were, within their daily living.

It's important to consider all sides here, which there are many. Because one thing is for sure, you will die one day. The question is how you will live until then, and if you do choose to live, that what you will spend your time on. One thing is for sure, that whether you sacrifice yourself or not, to save another, you will live with your decision. So the point is to make it count. And I find it to be helpful, to hold principles that give value to the Life that is in each one. The inequality within equality is that not everyone is holding the value of Life that is in each one. Only some are holding onto that value, and by default they do have value. Whereas those who don't have the value for Life, don't have value themselves. So this is something to consider within your daily decisions, on who you will support and who you will abuse. Support Life, and abuse those who don't. And may that be that karma or lesson, that Life is what holds value.

So help those who are willing to help themselves/others. Invest your time and effort in those that will actually support themselves and everyone. They are what matter. That is Life.

Equality among people 333



J'en ai des frissons...
Posted by Jeremy Demay on Saturday, May 17, 2014





So in the above video, I am observing a very interesting point that I myself participated in. That is, believing that children are merely inputting and outputting everything we tell them, and that we are shaping them. So here I am questioning this point, because this is a very common belief, where all of our parenting guides and school systems are using this belief to teach and shape the children into what it is that is right, good or best. Now, having spent time with children who specifically have the freedom to explore themselves and their world, I am having a different point of view that is quite obvious actually.

So with starting with the obvious, there have been many people that have grown up in abusive home environments, some that I know personally. These people all learned from their home environments and abusive parents, to not be like their parents, and to be different. This meant, not drinking alcohol for example. So in this case, this is the opposite of what we would think would occur if children merely copy parents examples. Therefore this shows that children are rationalizing, making observations, and coming up with their own conclusions. Children then are not the merely all receptive sponges we believe them to be. Instead they actually decide on what information they accept into themselves, and what not.

So what is the results from taking on this new perspective? So this would radically change out parenting styles and school systems, as currently we are all acting within the belief that we must give each child the conclusion and ready answer, instead of recognizing that they could come up with their own answer, which can be even better than yours. So this would require that the older generation be humble and recognize the equality among all beings of all ages.

Now, practically, some answers are more straightforward than others, but even then, we tend to over-simplify answers to situations, "for the sake of making it easier for the children." So one example is with words. Its somewhat true that words have set defintions, but in reality, every word was invented by people across the years, and even now as we speak, more words are being created. So words are merely points we agree upon through use. In the school system however, they attempt to define and set what is a word and what isn't a word. So in essence, this would require being practical with words, and understanding the situation here.

Now, again to question the fundamental point here, where we believe children are inferior to what they actually are, look at babies. Babies are amazing. They learn an entire language, without instruction, but through merely being expose to the language. They can even learn several languages at once! This have all been documented, and studied. This reveals, that they are working at a very complex and sophisticated level. Imagine, you being an adult, learning a new langauge through merely being exposed to the language. This would require that you listen for sounds and words, and listen for patterns, where you use patterns to figure out by deduction what is a word, and also using the repeating contexts to figure out what the word means, and then you test that theory over and over to further validate it, until you are sure it is true, and even then you will learn that words tend to have many meanings, not just one set definition. That is what the baby does. And for an adult that would seem a difficult task, and for many they would say its impossible. Yet, it isn't evidently.

So perhaps we would even regard babies as superior to us, in the practical sense.

Now, in looking at the world we have today, we have many adults who go through the school system work system, that come up :"successful." Meaning that they make money, they earned good grades, but here we have to consider the obvious. That most of these don't know what they want to do with their life, and if they say they do, they tend to have a cookie cutter answer that they probably received from their parents, teachers, or society, like becoming a doctor or going to college. So in reality, YES, we have made and shaped ourselves into being like robots, that merely copy one another, however, that is not ALL that we are, nor is it what had to be. It WAS a choice that was made by each one of us to merely copy and accept and go along with how things were told to us. We each had that spark or potential to question the situation, no matter how extreme. That is what it means to be human, that you can question and see and rationalize, and not merely accept how things are presented to you.

So I tagged the above video to question its message, and to show how this is not the reality, but merely a reality we believe is true, because in such a reality control over people is possible, as well as having excuses that someone else created you is possible as well. Self-interest is the root of this belief here.

Its time to start seeing everyone as equals.

Wednesday, September 16, 2015

Power of Imagination

SO, having examples to live by is important. However, when I look at what examples I had growing up, I know that I had none that I followed that were real/alive. I had plenty of potential examples that I could have chosen to follow, but I didn't because they weren't good enough. The example I chose to follow, is actually not someone alive. I used my imagination to create who it is I wanted to be. I collected the best person possible through my experiences, observations and imaginations. While doing this it felt more like a discovery than an act of creation. I merely uncovered the potential right here.

So in my mind I had the best example of who I should be. And as I aged and grew older and was exposed to more things, this example changed. And so I changed. I would say the person that I have changed into and the example I looked up to, are in agreement with the previous self and example. Because they are born out of that, out of those lessons and past experiences. So how can there be conflict? And so the same with conflict in general. How can there be conflict when we are all born out of each other?

Wednesday, August 26, 2015

When a thought or opinion becomes your identity 332

Do you hate or love Democrats or Republicans?

Do you hate or love Black people or white people?

Do you hate or love old people or young people?

Do you hate or love family or friends?

Do you hate or love animals, plants or humans?

Do you hate or love yourself, everyone, or no one?

What I have observed is that when you react to what is here, you place yourself in an inferior position to what is here. However if you accept what is here, as what is here, and then live to make what is here better, and into what is best, then you are living a fulfilled life. Therefore you cannot react to what is here. You cannot react to anyone based on political affiliation, race, skin color, your relationship history, being a friend or family member, for being an animal, plant or human. You cannot react even if they have wronged you and are not doing what is best, are not better what is here, and are reacting to what is here. For if you react, you are simply participating in the same thing that they are doing and that which you are reacting about. When will the cycle end?

What is interesting about love and hate is that we have defined it according to our opinion or thought. So whenever we have a positive opinion about something/someone, we call that love. And whenever we have a negative opinion about something/someone, we call that hate. And we usually define one group as the one we love and a different group as one we hate, usually on the basis of a though/opinion that defines such groups in opposition to one another, or in conflict. If you reflect on this point, you will see for yourself.

Identities then, when defined in reaction, or energy, or righteousness, or separation, causes problem. However recognizing who we are here, for what we are, recognizing our life experiences, our skills, hobbies, the life we have lived for what they are, that is cool and necessary because they are here. You can't escape your past. You can only embrace it within understanding, and use it to support you to change what is here, to make a future that you would like to be in. The future I would like to be in is one that everyone is supported and cared for in every way, and so all is happy and satisfied within their lives knowing that they have the support to face all of the challenges life brings. So we work together as one, family or team, as humanity, and the broader group called Life.

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Monday, August 17, 2015

Something new or something old?

I am absolutely exhausted, but I have to write this blog right now. So today, I went to the Sunset Sudbury School in Fortlauderdale. When I arrived I had an experience of excitement about facing something new. However, after I left 3 hours later, I realized that this wasn't new, but something old. So my expectations were false. To be in this school and work at this school requires that I access my real self, my old self, who I naturally am completely. Its refreshing and familiar experiencing, I know myself all to well. It's just that I rarely am myself, this old self of mine. In this environment, being my old self is not just a luxurary but a necessity to be at this school and get hired. You see, every person in the school will vote whether I work there. And this includes the children. And I know for a fact children see straight through you.

This means that I get to talk about video games and play videos games with them. That is like a necessary point, that I be myself. Seriously, where in the world can you go to work and be yourself, and talk about video games? So here it is. I will get one shot/chance to be myself and show what I have in common with the people in the school. There is no ONE person that will make the decision to hire you. NOPE. The entire school as one will decide whether to hire you. So essentially I must meet, share and expose myself to the people at the school. And the most number of them are young, like under 10 years old. So I can be myself, my old self.

SO basically this means that I won't be trying to impress an authority figure with things which we shouldn't find impressive. Instead I will be having fun and impressing people in general which things which are fun and impressive for REAL!  So it's the reality shift from what's fake to what's real.

Spark to ignite the flame 330

So when I had a little time today, I decided to sit down and watch tv. Now the first channel that was on was Nickelodeon, and it was the middle of the day, so the programming that was on was a child's tv show. Now it is interesting that we call television shows, tv programming... Do you see? You are being programmed?

So I hated what I saw on tv, and especially what I heard. But this is only because I know better now, however, growing up watching tv, I would watch these types of shows daily hours on end. For some reason I was attracted to this television programming designed for kids. Why? I didn't know. And yet, know as an adult, I can reference the same experience. It still has an effect on me, except now I know better. The main thing I hate about these shows is how it doesn't depict REALITY at all. The way the people act, how they act, how they treat each other, is very obviously insincere and fake, which you can even hear it in the voice. But if you don't have experience in the real world, you can't and won't here that fakeness in the voice, in fact, this is how all adults are speaking to children, especially teachers.

You know that voice. The voice where you go really high, and talk really slow, and talk in such a way that sounds like you are crazy, really. That is so fake, and you are putting on a fake smile. That is not who you are, and you are only putting on that face, to manipulate the child. That's the truth. You don't talk to the children as an equal, and even worse, you are taking advantage of their lack of experience for your benefit. It would be easier for you to have a slave that trusts you and listens to your every word, than to have an equal that question you and ask you, and even point how how and when you are wrong. Though in the long run, you will prefer the option that requires more work, because then you could actually have a real friend and equal helper.

So that is why I hate these shows, because I hate manipulation, and lies, that limit people, especially those that are most vulnerable, and now they are attracted to it. The truth is, that if they have a taste of reality, and sincerity, they will also hate this show and the spell will dissolve. So unbelievably, that only reason why it is working is that all of the children are not getting taste of reality during any part of their daily life. Not in school, not at home, and not anywhere. Can you believe that? That is AMAZING. That we have devised such a society and such a way of treating children in such synchronicity and uniformity that no matter where children go, they are belittle and treated as handicapped and incapable individuals that must be controlled, manipulate, and cajoled into position. And that is 24/7 honey. Any dictator would be proud at the state of control that is widespread. Seriously it takes a lot of work to pull this off. So here's an applause for that.

So, in reality, what it would take to change Reality, would be so little. Just a spark. It's like the change that is possible, is like a stack of desert dry hay. The perfect tinderbox that is ready to just go up in flames. All we need is to open the door ever so slightly, and all the water will burst through. We only need then just a spark, just a little push, that ignites this change in the generations of humanity. It won't take much and will only require a few, in relative to the whole humanity.  

Sunday, August 16, 2015

Your chances will run out. 329

You only have so many chances. You don't get infinite number. Nope. One day, the time in clock will run out. Not only within your physical death, but also within daily life and with people. You only have so many chances, to learn, to do what is best for all. And one day, it will be too late, unless you actually learn and correct yourself. I say this, especially for those that still hold onto the idea that you have until tomorrow to act, live and correct yourself. You don't. You only have right now/here. If you don't correct it here/today, then you won't ever. It's as simple as that. And you only have so many chances to realize that. And one day your chances will run out.

Learn humility, stop fighting. There's no excuses. You have had plenty of chances, and you blew it. And soon, you will blow the biggest mistake. The moment of being the last moment/chance. And you won't see it coming until you have already blown it. So don't wait!


Tuesday, August 11, 2015

What you feel about something doesn't matter 328

What you feel about something doesn't matter.

What you feel about yourself... is not real.
What I feel about myself... is not real.

What you feel about trees, cars, dogs, people, doesn't matter.

What you feel about things, is not real.

What is real are the actual physical things that are here, that are in front of you, that you see, hear, touch, smell. That is real. What you feel about what is real, isn't real.

It's like we are confused inside ourselves, where we believe that what we feel and react to and about what is real, makes what we feel and our reactions, real. It doesn't. What you feel about something is simply what you feel about something. It has no reality to it. It is simply reacting to what is here/real.

How you feel about things, doesn't matter. How you feel about things, won't determine or become an action or solution. It is not part of the solution. How you feel about the solution, doesn't make it more of a solution. Taking the action to make a solution happen, is real, and is all that is needed. The added feeling, is an added feeling. It doesn't add to the solution or the actions.

How you feel about the situation, the moment, what is here, doesn't matter. It isn't part of the solution. If you focus on changing how you feel about the situation, then you simply are creating a new feeling. Thus, the situation doesn't change! Instead you can focus on changing the situation. Thus the situation would change!

Thus spending time changing how you feel about a situation, changes nothing! Thus the time spent in how you feel about a situation, is simply a waste of your time.

The more time spent within how you feel about something, including yourself, the more time is wasted, and so the potential of being here with what is real, with what you can see, hear, taste, and be aware of.

If something needs to get done, how you feel about something can only get in the way and limit yourself. Things that need to get done need action, not feelings. Limiting and constricting yourself based on how you feel about something, is a limitation. It is not needed to create a feeling about something in a positive way before you take action.

You cannot find success or results that will be consistent and stand the test of time if you need to feel good about something before you take action to bring about results. You waste so much time and energy within trying to get in the right frame of mind and feeling before feeling right about the situation and the moment before you take action. It's not needed and so a waste of your time and energy.

How you feel about something doesn't matter. How you feel about problems, doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is what is matter, which means physical. Actions, movement. That produce results. Feelings produce nothing but a feeling. You can feel your way out of a problem, or think your way out of a problem through imaginations. The aligned action is what resolves the problems. Doing, acting, is the application of living the solution. Feeling and thinking randomly in reaction is not living the application of the solution.

And finally, whatever you feel about yourself is not real. Good or bad, it is not yourself, it is not YOU, it is a feeling ABOUT you, but it isn't you. It is in reaction to YOU, but its not you. However this feeling is sucking your energy, attention and time, and so is living off of you. So it is within your power to STOP.

Monday, August 10, 2015

Why so guilty? 327

Realigning Guilt.

SO what is interesting that I have observed today is how when I feel guilty, I enter into it completely without question. This means that I feel guilty, and accept the experience, when I do not even know whether I did something or I am doing something that I am feeling guilty for. It is like that when i feel guilty I already accept and believe that I did do that thing, even though I don't know for sure with confidence that I did. So guilt is misaligned within me.

With all honesty I can see that I don't know whether I did this thing that I feel guilty for. Yet I feel guilty all the same and I believe and act like I did do this thing. Why is this?

This is the result of trusting my feeling and following my intuition as a feeling, as a trust for my feeling to have some knowledge or access or awareness outside and above/greater than what is here available to my awareness. Like with tarot card readings, higher guides, psychics, divine beings, spiritually connected people. With such things, they require your belief, faith, and so does this feeling/emotional of guilt, and with your belief and faith you really give up your directive principle within it all. That is how guilt can be so misaligned that I simply and believe it and follow it whenever it happens to come up within me.

A realigned guilt would be one that is connected to me firstly see what I have done, and seeing it as something I cannot accept and allow. However, instead of feeling guilty, upon seeing what I cannot accept and allow, I can instead just perform the necessary actions of correction, now or in the near future, where appropriate to the context. See, what matters is my directive principle within it all. Not my reactions. I don't need guilt to tell me what I am already aware of. You see then, what is the point of any reactions? Since what you react to, is within your potential awareness. You just have to be aware of what is here and direct, simple, no reactions needed.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to feel guilt as a reaction to what is here, that is potentially within my awareness if I am here, and to trust the feeling of guilt, and so trust my reactions, and so believe that what I am reacting to about myself is true about myself, when it is a thought or belief. How I feel about myself isn't real.


Friday, August 7, 2015

How to be a real friend 326

So how to be a real friend?

So a real friend is someone who will stick by you no matter what. So the question is, how should these two people, these two friends interact. And I mean this is an important question because normally, with normal people, so with most people, you are not and they are not real friends. They won't stick by you no matter what. No that is simply not the case. And so, yes, you have to manipulate, you have to be careful and sly with your words. And too, with a real friend you have to be careful with your words, but in a different way. With a real friend, your words need to be real. With someone who is not a real friends, your words must also be real, but perhaps diluted, as sometimes the realness is too much for them. Let's then ask the question how shall I talk to my friend?

Soooooo.... understand the context, this is a true compradre, a true brothers in arms. ok? They will stick by you. So really, how you should talk is practicality. No bullshit, no emotions, no anger, no righteous. Purely what is best for both of you. You nor them are trying to convince, trick, or manipulate the other. Neither of you pretend to be a victim, or try to snuff the other one out. Now, one clear positive flag is that both of you cut to the chase. You stick to what is important. You also are not arrogant or believe you are right no matter what. You are humble and always keep the door open to your friend. So you are both direct, yet here, because you neither your friend pose a threat, because you are both doing what is best for both of you.

Thursday, August 6, 2015

What money's purpose is 325




So the importance of money. So to illustrate this, I will point to this scene in a 1979 animate movie called Jack Frost. In this scene the poor villagers made their own money, and this helped them as they had no money. All of their money was taken by their ruler. So in this scene this shows how easily one can help themselves by making their own money. As well, the importance of having enough money in circulation among people, which means people must have money for it to circulate.

https://youtu.be/w1vgtArmuvQ?t=7m39s

So really. Money should be available to everyone equally. And this can be seen by the fact that money's only purpose is to make sure that everyone has access to everything. But we humans have ignored and denied this purpose of money. But we can live it again. Money can be created in any moment. Money isn't real in itself. So to say I am a millionaire while there are people who are poor, and believing that is real is an illusion, as money can be erased in a second, and you are living within the denial of other people's access to life and living. This is what this movie illustrate clearly in these few seconds of the scene.

Also, the idea of an interest rate isn't real either. That too is an illusion, and is simply an extension of the same abuse of a millionaire existing where there are people who are poor. Because instead of equalizing the equation, they decide that they will lend their money "at interest" to the people who are already poor, and they pretend that the poor people will ever be able to pay the money back, when they the millionaire hold all the money already. Any money the poor people have will be on debt, which on top of that they have to pay interest. They could have easily made their own money, and live their own way, excluding the one millionaire. This secret is something smart people know. Those who abuse, decide to make sure we all pretend along, playing the game that lending money, and borrowing money, and paying interest, and being poor and being a millionaire is normal. It's not. It's a shame.


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Monday, August 3, 2015

Pockets of emotions 324




https://eqafe.com/p/pocketful-of-energy-reptilians-part-420
Pocket full of energy.


So I had a listen to this interview the other day. And the other day, I believe I faced a pocket of energy. So I was within looking at something, a particular topic. It was actually while writing a recent blog. And from this perception, I had like this thought or belief, which I took as true. But now that I slowed it down, it was a pocket of energy or emotion, depression. So it's like, while going through the topics, I happened upon a bump in the road. So it was there, and it was like a pocket in the sense that it is contained, and placed on this topic. It already existed, probably fed and built in the past, and it was simply there is storage, waiting to be faced, or bumped into. So I bumped into. I felt the emotion, and it felt familiar as well, especially when it came to this topic that it connected to. So like how the interview described, it was hanging there, which for me its like a sack hanging from somewhere. So it is connected to this topic.

So just to explain to the reader, that when you are in an emotion, your perception and what you are aware of is distorted, and limited. You do not see the full picture and what little you do see is distorted, and tainted. So for me, now looking at this and what I went through, it is interesting. What I committed myself to do is to watch out for such pockets of energy. Where there will be a moment while I am living and doing things, even looking at things, where I will just come upon a bump in the road, and there will be an energy there. This energy is defined, condensed, held tightly in place and position, and it is ready there, waiting to be bumped into. It will be familiar, and there will be some history to it. So it is to watch out for this. So that I question it, and step out of it, and understand what is going on. So really in one moment to the next, your experience changes completely. It is not so gradual or slow, remember it is there waiting. I didn't feel overwhelmed or powerless. In that moment I didn't know what was going on, and I did believe it was me and my perception. A flag though was that it was a familiar experience, especially when it came to the topic. And the emotion, and the stance I took to the topic was familiar. So I have been in these shoes and in that position before. So I could say there was a level of trust because it was familiar, where I could so easily and readily accept it and go into it. So its my history with it. So that is one thing I can forgive, to trust that which is familiar. Because familiar in itself only means that you have a history. And if you trust what is familiar, then you are only trusting that which has always been in the past, so you are doomed to repeat the past forever. Familiarity, is something I have valued, and trusted. This trust and value is misguided. Real trust and value would exist in something that you see, understand, introspect, dissect, test out, and see for its consistency and reliability, within it serving what is best for all. The statement that this is how things have always been, as a justification or excuse speaks to this point.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to trust that which feels familiar, and so state that I trust the past, and what has always been, and so dooming me to always and only repeat my past, history and what has always been, never in awareness seeing what my history and past is in fact is, before I make any decision. Therefore before you decide you must assess. Trusting on a feeling, is not an assessment, and it would seem ludicrous to call it a decision.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to jeopardize my future, my welling being, the well being and future of everyone around me, through trusting the past, because it feels good, to feel 'familiarity.'

And so, I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear the future, to fear change, to fear making an assessment of the past, of what is here, of a good feeling, to see what is practically best to do here, now and so for the future, for me and everyone.


Sunday, August 2, 2015

Sharing my Investigations about Anger and Fear 323



Hey everyone, so I have been opening up some really interesting points in the last 24 hours. There is much to share, but lets takes things one by one. So we'll see if we will get to everything today, and if not then tomorrow.

So the topics we will be covering is fear and anger. In my recent blogs I have been covering points where I have been feeling activated, perhaps I should say react-ivated, where I realized I have been in the past years on certain levels of myself in a constant reaction to most and much of my daily life. I can see fear is a subtle and potent point, where once you start out in it, it is hard to stop it. So my investigations in the past 24 hours have covered these points, and now I am ready to share some of what I have found. I figure that we could start with something small, yet an important realization/observation about daily life.

So we'll be looking at anger, and being right. Now, what is interesting that I am observing is this particular perception I have within me, that in some levels of myself, if I were to see someone get angry, let's say between two strangers, one person is very angry at another person, that I would believe and think that the person who is angry was wronged by the other person. So look at this wording here, I bet you may not have seen this before. "The person who is angry was wronged by the other person." This statement is a statement of a victim. Meaning that when a person is angry at another person, they are taking on the role of a victim. In their mind, they are a victim. Have you seen that before?

So I find this a fascinating observation/realization, and when I cross-reference that and compare that the memories I have of instances where I have gotten angry and when others have gotten angry, this seems to be prevalent and common. So the same with me then, when i have gotten angry, I saw myself as being wronged by another person and being a victim. Now for me, the word victim has a picture attached to it in my mind. The picture is of a person who has been hurt, who is soft-spoken, drawn back, and hiding. When you compare that picture to someone who is angry, which would be someone who is in your face, screaming, hot-headed, with steam blowing out of their ears, the pictures don't match. So this is really interesting now.

On a subtler dimension, I see that, yes I would firstly immediately almost instinctively believe that the person who is more angry, is the person who has been wronged, and so they are right. This I see being the case whether I am the one angry or someone else is angry. This means that when I am angry at someone and they are submissive, that I am right. And this means that if someone else is angry at me, and I am submissive, meaning that I am not becoming angry, then they are right.  This explains why that when you see two people arguing both try to become more angry and loud than the other, because all of us believe that whoever gives up first, meaning that they submit, would have lost, and whoever was angry last, or have the last word, that they would win. Can you relate to any of these situations?


So we can boil down the above observations into a statement that we live: whoever is angry is right, or "I am right when I am angry." Now of course when we place it like this, in its true, raw, naked form, yes it is ridiculous, we can see that. However this is what we live and become, so it's to not take this lightly, as it is easy to look from here and see the ridiculousness of it, but in the heat of the moment, will you actually remember this commonsense? That's the challenge here, to remember this and not forget it, so as to stop participation in getting angry, which is nothing but living as a victim.

So what is funny here is that we tend to believe that anger is an empowering experience. However, when we look at it, like we have done here today, we see that it's starting point is one of perceiving oneself as being inferior to a situation or to a person, where you see yourself as a victim. Anger then is an act of someone who is acting within the statement, I am a victim, and so I am right for being in anger. Being a victim then is used as a justification for acting anger. So whether it is being a victim towards the circumstance, situation, people, or environment, it is an disempowering experience, one of helplnessness. Now what is perhaps the most common experience that is disempowering? Did you think of fear?

So fear is disempowering, and perhaps the most common experience. So it shouldn't be a surprise then that from fear, we reach anger. How? So somewhere within fear there is a point of feeling powerless, and this is indicated by the fact that one stays within fear. There is almost like a belief that I can't stop my fear, that my fear is greater than me. Perhaps even a fear of being unable to stop fear. So such a statement/belief means that you are disempowered. This is actually what I found within my investigations. That within me was a statement: I cannot stop this fear. And this statement, I reacted to in fear. This is the point then to transcend. And by transcending this belief that there is fear within you that cannot be stopped, that is somehow greater than you, consequently you will also be preventing anger, as anger rises up from a point of being disempowered, as we have seen here today. So are you ready to stop living as a victim, and step beyond that? Read through the example self-forgiveness on fear and anger found in the links below.

This concludes my blog and my sharing on what I found. Thanks very much for reading, see you around.

Some example Self-forgiveness on Anger and Fear.
http://desteni.org/a/veno-self-forgiveness-anger
http://desteni.org/a/veno-self-forgiveness-fear

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